First, my husband's parents didn't come to propose to us. Because my husband's father was ill, my parents were very considerate and didn't let them come to our house to propose marriage. In-laws first met in the hospital. My parents came to see his father to discuss the wedding.
Second, there is no bride price. My husband's family conditions are average, my father is still sick, and we don't want a penny for the bride price. Everyone else has gold and silver jewelry, but I only have one ring. The day before the wedding, the master of ceremonies said, there is only one life, how can there be no ring? My husband feels very sorry for me. He bought a pair of wedding rings with the last 900 yuan and spent more than 800 yuan. Then all he had in his pocket was 78 yuan.
Third, banquet money and gift money. When I got married, I really didn't have any money. The hotel paid some money in advance, and the red envelopes of friends and relatives were put away. After the wedding, I tied the knot with the money in the red envelope, plus the money for cigarettes and wine.
After returning home for four or three days, I was alone and didn't bring anything home. According to our custom, going home once every three days requires husband and wife to go back to their parents' home together with gifts. I don't remember what my husband was going to do. Anyway, I went back to my parents' home alone, and my mother-in-law didn't know what to prepare, so she went home empty-handed
If you look at these things carefully, you will feel wronged. If you look down on them, there is nothing. Life will be better with more tolerance and forbearance.