I was deeply impressed and extremely annoyed when I broke up with my girlfriend who had been in love for two and a half years. I met my girlfriend when I was in college. She is a sophomore in the College of Art and Design, and my major is mechanical design. In others' eyes, we are not so well matched. One is full of artistic cells, and the other is a little "straight" or even plain.
However, the two of us went smoothly from acquaintance to love, and we basically didn't quarrel for more than two years. We got along so well that we even started planning our marriage. But no one thought that when I graduated, we finally separated because of work.
After graduation, I was admitted to a state-owned enterprise in Hefei (my hometown is Hefei), but because she is the only child in the family, my parents don't want her to follow me to Hefei (her family is from Zhengzhou, and we also went to college in Zhengzhou). She hesitated herself and didn't know what to do.
The two of us gradually began to make trouble because of this matter, and even quarreled often afterwards. Once, because of a fierce quarrel, she ignored me at all, saying that I was selfish and didn't think of her. Now that I think about it, it really is. Then one night, she came to me and asked me to make a choice, either get married and work with her in Zhengzhou or break up.
At that time, I was very disgusted with her persecution and said goodbye directly. Although it is difficult to break up, I don't think I did anything wrong. About two years later, I learned from one of her girlfriends that she was getting married, and I asked her to give her a present. In fact, I have long regretted breaking up and even feel guilty. Feel sorry for her.
Her best friend turned me down, saying that not disturbing is the best blessing. At this time, I still feel that I can't blame myself and spit out a few words with her best friend. Her best friend couldn't hold back and told me some details I didn't know. It turned out that she fell out with her parents for me and came to Hefei alone.
When she asked me to make a choice, she was actually in Hefei. The reason why she didn't tell me was to give me a surprise. However, I firmly say that I want to break up with her. The words were so cold that they completely hurt her and made her return to Zhengzhou. My self-righteousness made me completely lose her and the girl I have liked for more than 20 years.
After working for about three years, I talked about two girlfriends and finally broke up. Frankly speaking, most of the love after work is to weigh the pros and cons, because it is suitable for life and the emotional foundation is not solid. The point is that I always like to compare each other with her. This result may be that I deserve it.
I will still miss her now, and I will think of many of us before. Perhaps this is the way of life. Only when you lose it will you know the value.