1, avoid sending fans, which is homophonic with scattered sound. It is only used in summer. When the weather is cool in autumn, they are thrown away, which means rudeness. No matter how exquisite and expensive the fan you prepare, you'd better not send it.
2, avoid sending mirrors, mirrors are easy to break, and if they are not broken, they will reveal the true face of people, indicating that people are ugly, so they are taboo.
3. Don't send knives. Knife is easy to hurt people, and there is an idiom "make a clean break" in Losing Face. As a wedding gift, giving someone away feels malicious, so it is taboo. Although your collection of knives is beautiful and valuable, it is not popular at Chinese weddings.
Don't send towels, because they are usually used to thank mourners for their mourning, so weddings are not welcome. Besides towels, wedding bedding, silk, fabrics are all ok.
5. You can't get married with a green hat. Giving a cuckold as a gift is considered an insult and taboo.
6, the umbrella can not be sent, umbrella and scattered homophonic, scattered is discrete, indicating bad luck.
7, good double taboo. There is a saying in China that "Men", every big celebration, the gifts you give are always double-free. Therefore, if there are multiple combinations of gifts, it is better to be even and avoid singular.
The homonym of 8 and 4 is "death", which is unlucky. Generally speaking, the number of gifts should be avoided. On the contrary, the numbers 6, 8 and 9 have better meanings.
9. Although white is pure, it is taboo in China. In China, white is usually the color of great sorrow and poverty. Similarly, black is considered unlucky, the color of disaster and mourning. In China, big red is usually very popular.
10, the clock can't send, which is homophonic with the tail, which is unlucky. You can give your friends expensive clocks and watches on birthdays and anniversaries, but it is best not to give them at weddings.
Second, the matters needing attention of engagement gifts
1, be careful not to bite the donkey's lips, which makes people wonder if you are using it to add up the numbers, which is insincere.
2, be careful not to vote for its "evil", which makes people wonder if you are deliberately provocative.
When you get married, you should pay attention to whether the gift is from the other party. The so-called "peach for plum", "plum" and "peach" can have the same price, or they can be a little more expensive, but they must not be similar. I can't send you a crystal necklace, but I can also send her a crystal necklace back. It makes people wonder whether you are a shopkeeper, good at calculation and poor in human feelings.
4, pay attention to the gift has no taste. Expensive engagement gifts are not necessarily tasteful. Don't give homemade gifts that look grand but are actually shoddy, which will make people have absolute reason to doubt your intentions.
5. Pay attention to the fact that the gift has no wedding features or lacks special significance. Engagement gifts must be associated with a happy marriage, long life and early childbearing. Giving an irrelevant gift will make people wonder if it is a souvenir you brought back from an activity.
6. Pay attention to whether the gift is the old one a few years ago. Unless it is a classic style from a well-known brand and is talked about by people until now, you are suspected of turning out the things at the bottom of the box and giving them away.
7. Be careful not to be superficial when giving gifts. There is a girl who often plays basketball. People naturally think that she likes sports-related things, but in fact, she likes to do cross-stitch in private, and she is completely a little woman. If she gets married and gives her a pair of sneakers, it will definitely make her laugh and cry. Being fond of sports is just her appearance.