I have never said who owes whom when men and women get married, let alone that women are commodities. To put it simply, colleagues usually give gifts together, relatives give higher gifts, and relatives give higher gifts. Probably because you think too much, but both men and women have their own responsibilities, just different responsibilities. Men are only responsible, and women are caring and virtuous, which is an aesthetic obstacle for most people. If you care about gains and losses everywhere like you do, it makes me feel more like business than marriage. I am as good as you in terms of qualifications, but everyone has different outlook on life, different experiences and different attitudes towards things. As for the hardware I bought for my wife when she got married thirteen years ago, I spent the most money among my friends. So far, we love each other very much. Now we have bought two suites here in huaihai plaza, less than 200 square meters. I also have a three-bedroom apartment here in Beijing Road Middle School, and my savings are enough. I want to be the husband of an ordinary family. And I think a wife should be good to her parents, children and family. After all, everyone is ashamed, and nothing has been handled at home. I was still very tired when I was alive, not to mention a small family, and so was the country. Everything is happy.