You can't invite each other when the wedding day is near.
We can't invite each other when the wedding day is near, because in our traditional customs, celebrating happiness is very taboo. We believe that if two happy events meet, the less happy one will be at a loss, leading to unhappy marriage in the future. Therefore, if two people get married closer, then they still choose not to go, but now, after all, WeChat is so convenient, and the blessing still needs to be sent to others.
A complete list of marital taboos
1. On the wedding day, the bride's clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away her family's wealth.
3 days after marriage, when the couple get home, they must get back to their husband's house before sunset that day, so they can't spend the night. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately, so as to avoid the bride's blood colliding with her family during the honeymoon and making it unlucky.
On the way to the wedding, if the sedan chair meets the sedan chair, it is called "Xi Chong Xi", which will bring bad luck. The solution is to set off firecrackers to each other, or the matchmakers of both sides exchange prepared flowers, which is called flower exchange.
4. Pregnant women and undertaker can't witness the couple go out or enter the house with their own eyes, let alone touch the couple's clothes and everything in the new house.
5. When the groom picks up the bride from her daughter's house, the bride may leave her family, or cry with joy in excessive excitement, which is also very common and not a problem (even a good thing, leaving her daughter's house with a prosperous head). But you can't cry when you go to the man's house.
6. Brides should avoid wearing "old shoes" on their wedding day. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be brand-new. If you are afraid that new shoes are hard and uncomfortable, wear high-quality soft leather, and the size may be a little loose and padded. Don't wear high heels.
7. After going to bed, on the eve of the wedding, the prospective groom should avoid sleeping in the new bed alone and find an underage boy to sleep in the new bed with the groom. Otherwise, as the saying goes, "trapped in an empty shop, you will die, and you will die" is considered an ominous sign.
8. On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, all aunts and sisters-in-law should avoid seeing her off, because "aunt" is homophonic with "orphan" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweep", which is unlucky.
9. On the wedding day, when the bride leaves her family, everyone should cry as soon as possible. "Cry, don't cry, don't send" is a taboo.
10. The man doesn't need to "climb to the top" for his second marriage. If the second reason is the death of his ex-wife, the first thing the second wife does after entering the door is to offer tea in front of his ex-wife's coffin, and then offer tea to Weng Gu.
1 1. On the bride's wedding night, she will find her unmarried sister sleeping in her bed that night, with fruits and red envelopes on the bed. I wish the bride all the best in her life.
12. Don't get married in June of the lunar calendar, which means a half-moon wife.
13. When installing the bed, put the bed in a proper position to avoid facing the sharp corner of the desk wardrobe or something.
14. On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people involved in the engagement are not allowed to fan, otherwise it means breaking up.
15. It is stipulated in the engagement that after the wedding reception, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise it means remarriage.
16. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, which will make her feel ashamed of her husband.
17. When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and cross it.
18. If the bride and groom get married, that is, the groom's brother, the bride and groom must pass through the unmarried brother's crotch before going out to show "offence". If it's the eldest sister who climbs her head, because some people think it will be "underdeveloped" to wear it under a women's skirt, they will send the skirt to the unmarried elder sister instead, commonly known as "menstruation skirt". Unmarried brothers and sisters should not witness new people going out or going through the door, but should temporarily avoid higher places, such as going to the next level.
19. When the bride enters the man's house, Weng and Gu should not point the direction of the bride's entrance at the gate, but avoid it a little to prevent collision.
20. Wedding couplets should be hung up before the "top" at the latest (that is, on the eve of marriage) and can be taken down one month after marriage. Men's and women's couplets are different, so it is necessary to distinguish clearly when purchasing.