People are confused because they have too many ideals, but also because they have high self-evaluation ability and too few opportunities. To solve this problem, it is necessary to pick out your core and most desired ideal goal, emotional family, music dream, wedding career or seemingly promising leadership positions in construction enterprises? If you want too much, you will probably get the least or even nothing.

Furthermore, we should carefully evaluate our abilities. I quite agree with you that "stay in your favorite industry for a few years", study hard and struggle. As long as we are not stupid and illegal, we will eventually achieve something. But if you just think that your uncle's personnel have the right and you have the ability to sit in a leading position in the construction industry, I beg to differ, let alone an industry occupation that you don't like. I don't believe that your future life will be happy and relaxed.

I hope my point of view can inspire you ~