Locals, in Nanhui, Zhou Pu, Linsan, Chuansha, Fengxian, Qingpu, Jiading and other coastal areas, have lived in the suburbs dominated by farming for generations. The local people were originally poor, but as soon as the real estate industry developed, the local people who owned fields suddenly developed and many houses were demolished. The language they speak is suburban dialect, which we call local dialect. Outsiders, who have come to Shanghai from all over the country to survive for 20 years, have long had the foresight and luck to buy a house. Most people rent houses in this city and can't buy a house in the foreseeable future. They speak Mandarin.
The rich people in Shanghai followed Shen Kai, went to Hongkong and died in China, so until the reform and opening up, let alone Shanghai, even though there were not many rich people except officials in China. In the past two or three decades, life has gradually improved, but the scene that the old batch is distributed according to their needs according to food stamps, and there may be no food in the second half of the month is still in the minds of the older generation, which is difficult to change. I don't know if the subject has seen the movie "Stock Madness" by Pan Hong and Liu Qingyun.
In this film, there is a scene in which Pan Hong turns on the tap of the house next door while washing vegetables, and then she is caught by the aunt next door, causing a quarrel between neighbors. Why does the electricity meter only run once a month? Who answers the water in the middle of the night? Because I grew up in a similar alley when I was a child, it looked very kind and real, because I was really poor at that time. When people are poor, they only think about living well first, not being a quality person. Who will do it after sixty or seventy years of trouble?
I went to my best friend's wedding, flew from Japan to Bali, and paid more than 7000 round-trip air tickets. Get to the point. Your classmate asked you to be the maid of honor. According to your description, you must know that you should prepare your own dress, try on makeup and take care of yourself at lunch. If you think your friendship is not enough to make you willing to do these things for her, then I advise you not to say yes at the beginning next time. Just find a reason, such as spending time with parents, spending time with the elderly, and sincerely wishing her the best. I think normal people will understand. Don't wait until the end to say how dissatisfied you are online.
To put it bluntly, you took the job knowing that the other party didn't treat you according to your satisfactory etiquette. This is purely your own fault, and you deserve it. I said I didn't care, but I always said I did.
I don't do everything so well, so I may listen to my parents more. I have also attended many weddings, experienced many daytime procedures, and used to be a part-time wedding staff, so I have definitely experienced more wedding daytime procedures and wedding scenes than the main body. I've never seen anything like it sold to everyone at noon. In most cases, after picking up the bride, we have a meal in a nearby restaurant or make a big table of food at home for everyone to eat together. After all, there is another location that is difficult to shoot in the afternoon.
At the wedding scene in the evening, people on the road will arrange the wedding staff to have dinner, arrange it at random, and generously open a table directly for the wedding staff.