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What should Laiwu do on the first blind date?
Rural areas are basically the same as cities. Even if we talked about it, it is necessary to have a blind date. One is to increase festivals, and the other is to receive blessings. This is a wonderful thing. Getting married is a big deal. With the process of blind date, we will close our eyes and have good memories in the future. Especially for girls, the mood will be very happy, which is also good for marriage. As for parents, they are willing to do it for their children, fearing to miss that "process". In Shandong, the vast majority are like this.

Of course, blind date is not a necessary condition for marriage!

If you want to go on a blind date, dress up first, and you'd better find a matchmaker. I will play this role here and arrange for boys to go to the woman's house first.

Young men should buy some gifts, which are less, more exquisite and more beautiful! You should consult "dear" in advance.

Suppose we go in the morning, the young man will stand behind me cautiously and I will knock at the door.

"Uncle and aunt (or brother and sister-in-law) are good!"

"Oh, please sit in the house, sit in the house, look at it, look at it, why don't you bring something? Just come. " That's for sure. My favorite came home early and announced it.

Next, I brag while drinking tea. Don't run around in other people's homes. If you blush, let "blush" float on your white face once.

You must have a title, called "Uncle and Aunt".

Be diligent when sitting and standing, for example, often pour me tea.

You can drink at noon, but young people can't eat or drink. Eat politely and don't smack your mouth. Laiwu people are taboo, Shandong people are taboo, and the whole country does not like it.

There may be girls' brothers and sisters, cousins, uncles and aunts. Don't be afraid, my mother-in-law has the final say.

Out of the girl's house, help me get on the bus, and you can breathe a sigh of relief.

Now arrange the girl to go to the man's house. So is the previous one.

The difference is that girls can help with some housework. If they can't cut vegetables, don't use a kitchen knife, but learn to hide their ugliness.

In Laiwu, the food of blind date is exquisite, and the man's family wants Pisces and double chickens (I don't know if it is so exquisite now). Of course, change the customs, just eat!

When leaving, the man's parents will give him a red envelope and say "thank you, uncle and aunt!" " "As for the two guys going to that corner to count money, the matchmaker can't control it.

Most importantly, as the Shandong saying goes, "three or two bottles won't do." Don't forget to thank my "matchmaker", that is, thank the man for his dedication. For example, I like tea, so it's okay to buy a few kilograms more.

I wish all lovers will be well.

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I have a standard answer here, and my answer will definitely satisfy you! But I need to know your specific situation before I can prescribe the right medicine!

Man or woman? How old is it? Where do you work? Do you have a car? Do you have a room? How tall are you? What's your education? Do you have any savings at home? Do parents have a pension?

Please answer the questions first, and I'll help you analyze the specific questions. Don't thank me too much.

Hello, fellow villager! Dress up before going on a blind date. Be a gentleman. Speak generously, talk about some interesting things such as food, work and experience, and avoid silence. The best time is within 1 hour. If you can chat, you can leave a contact information for each other. It is convenient to contact later.

Not before. Because the circle is small, we only met through blind date. It's just a way to get to know each other. Actually, I still like to learn from ordinary friends, but I don't like that. I know a man with a clear goal. I am also a leftover woman in my thirties. In addition to blind date or blind date, there are too few suitable people around.

I'd like to help you solve your problem, but I don't quite agree with blind date. I think it's very unreliable. I really don't know how to find the right person and blind date in normal social situations. It seems a little utilitarian. Don't look at what you say on the surface, look at the actual actions of the other party. Think of it as an ordinary friend. Just meet and talk politely.

It's time to go home for a Chinese New Year blind date again! Are you all set?

Do you know what to pay attention to when dating? Let's listen to Yuan.

First of all, you should know the reason why the blind date failed! Pay attention to Tang Ayuan, a senior post-80 s, post-90 s and post-00 s emotional analyst, and accompany you through the confused period of love!

Knowing the reason for the failure, Yuan came to talk about the secret of blind date success:

1, appearance determines the first impression

In this era, don't say that you are not from the Appearance Association, and no one will believe you. Since we have reached this stage of blind date, if we don't dress up for the first time, I'm sorry about my blind date time.

2. What if it is unnatural?

How can we meet for the first time without embarrassment? First of all, relax and don't be too nervous. Try to talk about some positive energy topics to give the other person a positive feeling, and remember not to talk or stop talking.

3. What can we talk about without ruining the atmosphere of blind date?

Someone must have something to say. What you said is very simple. You should relax. What can we talk about?

A yuan thinks it's best to make an appointment at a dinner party, order together, get to know each other from the ordering, and then talk about some light topics of mutual interest, such as a movie recently shown and a book recently read. This way, you can get to know each other's preferences in depth, and maybe you can make another movie!

Never talk about national affairs, science and technology or English as soon as you start, let alone ask some personal questions, such as salary, savings, family conditions and so on. It is said that the most disgusting problems in blind date are

4. What do you need to prepare for a blind date?

In order to make a good impression on each other when we meet for the first time, we can prepare a small gift, neither too expensive nor too cheap.

When men and women meet for the first time, the best time for them to talk is about 1 hour. Remember to arrive at 15 minutes earlier than the appointed time. In this way, we can make a good impression on each other, and then send a small gift to give them extra points.

Old drivers should not drive too early.

Even an old driver, don't drive at once when you meet for the first time! Most people think that you can drive to date at least three times. Driving too early will make girls think you are too frivolous and disrespectful. My good feeling for you will drop a lot.

These skill classes mentioned by A Yuan don't teach you snobbery and focus on money, but tell you how to make a blind date without hurting others and appearing vulgar!

Pay attention to Tang Ayuan, a senior post-80 s, post-90 s and post-00 s emotional analyst, and accompany you through the confused period of love!

Blind date is usually a superficial problem at first. If you see each other well at first sight, start asking about your age and what you do. What is the salary? What do parents do? Did you buy a house? Anyway, just like checking an account, I was asked again and finally left a contact information. On the contrary, I may have left without saying a few words, and even left my contact information.

Just be generous and decent. I wish you a successful blind date.