Custom:

1, it is undeniable that the meeting ceremony refers to the first time that the woman officially went to the man's house, that is, in 2000.

2, three gold, generally around 6000 (of course, excluding individual large purchases, in fact, this is really boring, usually bought on the wedding day, who else will bring it),

When it comes to clothes and cosmetics, they are mutual. Men buy for women, and women buy for men (forget cosmetics, most boys don't wear makeup). It is 10000.

4, engagement, generally 20-30 thousand, plus gifts, catering, a total of * * * 50 thousand or so

5, getting married is generally the same as getting engaged, but there are many kowtows. Parents are generally 65,438+00,000, which is 60,000.

Then there will usually be lucky money on the first New Year, around 1000.

To sum up, 2000+6000+10000+50000+60000+1000 is approximately equal to 130000.

In the same situation, the woman replied:

1, conference ceremony 1000

2. Three gold rings 1000

3. Clothing 2000

Total: 4,000

Marry a woman: Under normal circumstances, all the money given by parents in the south is brought, totaling 85,000.