I talked to her, and it turned out that she left the rest voluntarily, not the chosen one. I really can't make do with emotional things. After all, it is a lifelong marriage. I can't get married and then leave, which will make me physically and mentally exhausted and have no expectation for love.

In order to facilitate the reading experience, I will repeat her original words in the first person.

My name is Fen. I am 36 years old. I have been in love several times and all ended in failure. Otherwise, I wouldn't be single. To be precise, I am lazy and don't care much about interpersonal relationships.

You want me to talk to people face to face, you might as well let me do a copy. My personality is born perfect and I don't want to change it. So I spend more time alone, instead of spending time in communication like other women, trying to broaden my network resources.

My ideas are different from theirs. I never thought about relying on men and trying to bind men with marriage. I always believe that fate is in my own hands.

/kloc-When I was 0/8 years old, I had an unforgettable secret love. The other person is my senior in senior one. He is sunny, handsome and looks good when he smiles. But for three years in high school, I didn't take the initiative to confess. I don't think girls should take the initiative in this matter, even though I like him very much.

Some feelings are only suitable for a certain period of time. After graduating from high school, I felt no nostalgia for him, as if I had woken up from a dream. I should leave.

I heard that he went to other provinces, but I stayed in this province. I prefer the local cultural atmosphere, and I don't want to travel north and south. Our different choices doomed us to miss the ending.

During my college years, I was dull and full. Near graduation, I received the first confession message in my life. I read every word silently with excitement. This is the longest reading comprehension I have ever done. Because the person who signed it was not my type, my boiling heart suddenly dropped to freezing point.

A boring girl like me who focuses on her studies, it is estimated that no boy will have a crush on her. Most of them like lively and beautiful female students, so my university ended in an unsatisfactory way.

After working for two years, I was urged to get married by my family. I was in such a hurry that I simply resigned. I used the money I saved from working in these two years to study abroad and began a journey of wandering in a foreign land.

I never thought I would be so brave. A man who has never even been out of the province traveled for the first time and actually crossed the ocean to the other side of the ocean.

I have lived a full and wonderful life. I like my single life very much. I have three or five friends and have a good time with each other. I envy freedom more than marriage.

After running away from home for two years, I packed my bags and went back to my hometown. The older you get, the less you want to be willful and stop living for yourself. I began to think about my parents' life.

After work, I accept the arrangement of my family to meet different boys. I regard it as an opportunity to eat, drink and make friends.

Because my attitude is not correct enough, I have never met a satisfactory marriageable object. Going around for so many years, in a blink of an eye, I am actually 30 years old. To tell you the truth, I'm starting to worry.

Looking at the good sisters around you, it is very happy and sweet to get married and have children. It would be self-deception to say that I don't envy. To say that I'm not in a hurry is just pretending to be calm.

But feelings are useless when you are in a hurry. I have tried many ways to lower my body and lower my self-requirements, but it is still difficult to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.

In the first three years, my family was still very anxious. After tossing for a long time, it was still fruitless. I simply gave up and went to be chic and happy. At last, I relaxed and became free.

Unconsciously, at the age of 36, I became calm and unwilling to look for it again. I think everything will be natural. The older I get, the more I see through human feelings, and the less I want to settle down and wronged myself.

Like me, with a monthly salary of 30 thousand, living in a house I bought, driving my own car and having a satisfactory job, I really don't think I will fail if I don't get married

My ideas have always been strange. I never like relying on men, and I don't like men relying on me. After so many years of single life, I learned to entertain myself.

All my friends laugh at me. The younger you live, the younger you are. I know they said my mental state, not my age and body. I give myself a deadline. If I haven't met the right man before I turn 40, I will decide not to get married and live happily alone.

I was particularly touched by her story. I used to be as maverick as her, but it's better to get married in a hurry when I get to marriageable age. I don't have her courage and courage.

Don't laugh at the dumped girls. It's not that they are not good enough, nor that they are too picky, but that they are too good for anyone to match.

In fact, as long as it is true love, what's the point of being late? I'm willing to wait anyway. What about you?