Does the child participate in the second marriage?
It doesn't matter if the child is young and doesn't know. Let children feel the atmosphere of marriage. More people will make children have more fun. But be sure to keep him safe. After all, the wedding scene is very lively, which can satisfy the playful nature of children. If the relationship between the child and himself is stiff and it is adolescence, it is necessary to be cautious. Children in this period are particularly vulnerable, especially psychologically, and easily emotional, so it depends on the specific situation.
Second marriage rule
Accept her past.
Everyone has a past, you and I have a past, but let the past go forever. If we always bring up the past, it will affect our present life. Before you marry the second married woman, you must be prepared to accept her past and yours, that is, after you get married, don't talk about her past, and don't mention her sadness when you quarrel. If you are not prepared to fully accept his past, this relationship between you will not be happy.
2. Accept her children
If she has children, you must be prepared to accept her children before you marry her. If you just like her, but you can't accept the child born by her ex-husband, I don't think you will be happy if you do. Now that you have decided to marry him, you must accept his children in your heart. If you can't convince yourself, I hope you can seriously consider this marriage. Even if you get married, you will still divorce because of your children. In this case, it will be a secondary injury to you and both of you.
3. Accept his family
I have seen such a reorganized family. Both of them were divorced and each had a child, but they never contacted each other's children and parents after marriage. If the man takes his daughter, the child will be sent to his grandparents' home; if the woman takes his son, the son will be sent to his grandparents' home. The two children won't live together, but as for their parents, the other party doesn't really regard them as their biological parents.
4. money.
Now that you are married, you must give up your money. Don't always treat her like someone else and haggle over money. If so, the relationship between you will never be good.
Do I need a divorce certificate for the second marriage registration?
If you remarry, submit a divorce certificate to the Civil Affairs Bureau. As for whether to have a premarital examination, it's up to you. At present, there are no strong regulations in the country. Any remarriage or remarriage registration must bring a divorce certificate. According to Article 5 of the Regulations on Marriage Registration, mainland residents shall present the following documents and supporting materials when registering for marriage:
(1) my household registration book and ID card;
(2) A signed statement that I have no spouse and have no direct blood relationship with the other party or collateral blood relationship within three generations.
The divorce certificate of a person with a marriage history is the "proof that I have no spouse" as stipulated in item (2). To get a marriage certificate, you need to issue an ID card and a household registration book. Marriage can only be registered in the civil affairs department where the household registration is located. The birth permit can be collected at the place where the man's household registration is located, or at the place where the woman's household registration is located. The birth permit is handled in the community neighborhood Committee, and the marriage certificate is handled in the civil affairs department. There is a difference between the two. Birth certificate is a procedure to allow pregnancy, and the birth certificate is issued by the hospital when the baby is born. The two are also different. It only needs a little handling fee to apply for a birth permit, and it doesn't need a lot of money. You can consult the community neighborhood Committee where the account is located.
Supplementary provisions on divorce parties' application for remarriage registration
1. Divorced China citizens apply for remarriage in China. If their previous marriage was dissolved through judicial procedures in foreign countries according to local laws, their divorce certificates (divorce mediation papers and divorce judgments issued by the courts) must be recognized by the China People's Court. If the ruling is approved, it shall be deemed as valid; Rejected because it has no legal effect. If the previous marriage relationship is registered for divorce in a foreign marriage registration office, the divorce certificate does not need to be recognized by the people's court of our country, but it must be certified by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of the country where it lives or an authorized institution of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and certified by the Chinese embassy or consulate in that country.
2. Divorced foreigners applying for remarriage in China must show their divorce certificates. If the previous marriage relationship was dissolved through judicial procedures in a foreign country according to local laws, the nationality certificate of the original spouse certified by the embassy or consulate of China in that country should also be provided. If the former spouse is a citizen of China, his divorce certificate (referring to the divorce mediation and divorce judgment issued by the court) must be recognized by the people's court of China. If the ruling is approved, it shall be deemed as valid; Rejected because it has no legal effect. If the former spouse is a foreign citizen, or his previous marriage relationship is registered in a foreign marriage registry, the divorce certificate does not need to be recognized by the people's court of our country, but it must be notarized by the notary office of his own country, and authenticated by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of his own country or its authorized institution, the Chinese embassy or consulate in that country, or directly authenticated by the Chinese embassy or consulate in that country.
3. If the party holding the first-instance divorce judgment of the people's court of our country applies for remarriage, it must provide proof that the divorce judgment issued by the court has legal effect.
4. Chinese embassies and consulates abroad shall, in accordance with relevant regulations, handle the divorce certificate certification procedures notarized by the host country and certified by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs or its authorized institutions, and issue or certify the marital status certificate for China citizens who have obtained legal residency abroad for a long time. Special circumstances should be reported to the domestic approval.
5. The marriage registration authority shall file the ruling of People's Republic of China (PRC) People's Court submitted by both parties to the marriage, or the notarized and certified divorce certificate, nationality certificate or proof that the divorce judgment is legally effective.
6. In China, the divorce certificate issued by a foreign court that signed a civil judicial assistance treaty with China shall be handled in accordance with the relevant provisions of the treaty.
7. If the parties applying for marriage provide false certificates or the certificates have been altered, the marriage registration authority will not register them.