Find a matchmaker (even if you are in love, you are going to get married soon)-propose marriage-bride price-pick up relatives (traditionally, the man invited people with status in the family and the matchmaker to pick up the woman, and the woman also had relatives to send her. But now everything has changed. You just rent 20 cars for ostentation. If the bride's dowry is too much, she can rent two more trucks.
The gift depends on your personal situation!
There is no upper limit, generally 2.3W! After all, people like you, not want your money!
I hope the villagers will adopt it. . .