My parents-in-law are eccentric. Brother-in-law suggests you talk to your parents-in-law.

Living together for a long time, I feel particularly uncomfortable when I see my mother-in-law's quirks. Once I couldn't help talking to my mother-in-law for a long time. This is a formal conversation, a conversation specifically aimed at the mother-in-law's partiality. I asked my mother-in-law if you want to support yourself by your brother-in-law when you are old, and then you don't need us. If so, you can continue to be eccentric, and it is so obvious eccentric. Then I asked her, isn't my husband your own? She said it must be her own. Then I asked her why she was so partial to us. She has nothing to say.

Then I put myself in the position of chatting with my mother-in-law. My younger brother is not young, and my husband of the same age is already supporting the family. And he's still eating, drinking and having fun, and he can't even afford to support himself, so he has to rely on the elderly to support him. I asked my mother-in-law, what should my brother do when you are old? Who will support him?

In fact, you are conniving at him and hurting him. People of this age should have been on their own for a long time. A man who has done well is already supporting his parents. But look at your little son. He's spoiled by you now. What?

I'm whispering to my mother-in-law, just being reasonable. We didn't make a hullabaloo about, just chatting normally. Speak all my grievances calmly. After I said it, I felt very relaxed and found this chat very effective.

After that day, my mother-in-law never did anything obviously biased in front of us. It's all the same to eat together, and I won't cook for my brother-in-law alone. And more importantly, a few days later, my mother-in-law announced. In the future, my brother-in-law will earn money to support himself, and the family will not give him another penny.

The mother-in-law used this strong attitude to make her husband's younger brother understand. He has reached the age of self-reliance, and he can't chew on it like Mi Chong. Besides, he said he would treat us equally in the future. If you want to give money, the two brothers will share it equally. Otherwise, none of them will be given. Never take sides.