Some people may misunderstand the meaning of the word "naked" in "naked marriage".
The "naked" here certainly does not mean spending 9 yuan to get a certificate, but determining the wedding and married lifestyle according to the actual situation.
Otherwise, one possibility is to accumulate debts, enjoy the wedding for a few days, bear debts for decades after marriage, or let the elderly bear these debts.
The second possibility is that the savings of two families have been spent for decades. Although there is no debt in the future, the days without savings are still relatively poor.
The third possibility is more common, that is, both debt and savings are borne only by the "rich" (both true and false) party. Usually, the man's "physical strength" is surplus (of course, the woman's wealth is everywhere), and then the two sides and families with huge differences in "physical strength" will have many differences and even contradictions in their lives, unless the two families are not in contact, but how is this possible? !
To sum up, "naked marriage" means getting married without debt or luxury. There are not as many complicated things to think about and bear as before.
[Edit this paragraph] Create a background
In 2008, "Naked" culture became popular in China. Two fresh graduates from Tsinghua University streaked to the "naked bath place" in Dadonghai, Sanya City, and then associated with the nude push-ups of a host a few days ago, nude photos such as "naked body", "naked official" and "naked donation" appeared on the Internet. In the context of the global financial crisis in 2008, netizens created a new word-"naked marriage".
[Edit this paragraph] Practical significance
Naked marriage refers to the phenomenon of directly registering marriage without buying a house, a car, a wedding or a wedding ring. On the one hand, it reflects the change of modern society's understanding of marriage. Marriage is not only a family choice, but also an individual's choice of love and lifestyle. On the other hand, it also reflects the change of material concept in modern society. In the 1980s, there was a saying of "three things to get married", and "having a house and a car" became the standard for young people to choose a spouse in the early 20th century. In this context, the appearance of "naked marriage" has its practical and social significance.
[Edit this paragraph] Evaluation criteria
No house, no car, no wedding, no wedding ring, no honeymoon, just meet both parents.
Naked marriage is the latest way to get married after 80s. They use "no house, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding dress, no savings, no wedding and no honeymoon" to explain the frugal way of getting married. In short, nothing is needed except going to the registration office to get a marriage certificate from Zhang Huali.
X day, x month, 2009. Jinan. Warm spring is like summer.
The sun gradually moved to the northern hemisphere, and the days became significantly longer. Even if the hour hand points to 6: 15, there is still no night outside the window. In a western restaurant in Lixia District, the capital of Hunan Province, Duan Yang, 25, and Wang, 27, sat face to face in a window seat and celebrated their wedding with wine and food.
There is no picturesque house, no motorcade running half a road, no banquets from relatives and friends, no special clothes, only two people each holding a red notebook to witness, which is all about their wedding.
"Although we didn't have a house or a car, we got the consent of both parents, picked a memorable day, registered with the Civil Affairs Bureau, and then we didn't plan to have a wedding. Naked marriage is not popular now. " Duan said that she and her husband are also very fashionable.
Careful you will find that there are many people like Duan Yang around you, and "naked marriage" has become the most popular word this year. What is "naked marriage"? Of course, this does not mean going to the wedding naked. In the eyes of followers, there is no room, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding, no honeymoon, no banquet, and those who should marry are generous. This is "naked marriage".
It is understood that the "naked marriage family" is mostly between the ages of 20 and 35, and most of them are post-80 s. Most of them are very avant-garde, and there are also many urban white-collar workers with high education and high income. In the view of "naked marriage family", it is their advocacy that makes "naked marriage" blow up like a hurricane in this city.
Many post-80s people reach marriageable age, but they don't get married, not because they don't want to get married, but because they have too much helplessness. But now some people prefer the concept of "naked marriage". Young people should abandon the secularity of money, and true love is the eternal way. If two people can truly love each other, no matter how poor the boy is, as long as the man is persistent and self-motivated, then with these men, I will definitely not let my beloved woman suffer, just like my humble classmate Beckham, who refuses to eat delicious food every time he goes out to eat, and gives all the delicious food to seaweed. What about such a man? Not worthy of your love?
[Edit this paragraph] Views of all parties
Expert opinion:
It is retrogression, but it is also progress.
Speaking of "naked marriage", experts said: In the 1980s, there were three things in marriage, and "having a house and a car" became the standard for young people to choose a spouse in the early 20th century. In this context, the appearance of "naked marriage" has its practical and social significance, which is a return and a progress. Sina. Com survey results
Netizen's point of view:
1 agrees that love is paramount, and the house and car can be bought together after marriage, accounting for 57.7%.
No, material is the foundation, accounting for 35.7%.
No problem.
(According to the naked marriage survey on Sina. Com, as of 20 10 10 1)
Views of netizens on "naked marriage";
1, love ambest: Naked marriage should be a normal life state for young people. As soon as you get married, you will have a wedding dress, a ceremony, a house and a car, which is the morbid understanding of a happy life by the whole society. "
2, Anjuke: Naked marriage is a kind of self-deception! How can we talk about love without a certain material foundation? A marriage with only one marriage certificate is as thin as a piece of paper and can't stand any wind and rain. "
3. Jiangsu and Zhejiang: Maybe nine dollars can prove love, but who can guarantee that the love of nine dollars is indestructible?
4.ldsytyy: The key to happiness is not whether you get married naked, but whether you can help each other, struggle and persist after marriage.
5. Sincere hero: If a girl doesn't ask for an RV and is really willing to accompany her, then the stretched youth will live a relatively calm and happy life.
6, holding the moon: naked marriage is good, but you have to get the consent of your mother-in-law.
7. Being alone: I can accept being half naked, but I may not be naked. Houses are like our clothes and pants, cars are like shoes, and weddings and diamond rings are hats and scarves. You can do without the last three, but not without clothes, right?
8. Xiaoyan 679: weren't both parents naked at that time? They also started from scratch.
9. Cheng: The so-called naked marriage is nothing more than putting what you do unconditionally in your life when you get married into your marriage. This is normal.
10, Yanze 525: Naked marriage is the simplest marriage story in this materialistic era.
1 1, Tian: If you have put on your shoes, there is no need to go barefoot again, but it is still meaningful to live barefoot.
A: Some people think that it is in China after all, and China itself is a conservative country. Naked marriage will still have some adverse effects.
B: Some people think that men should get married naked and women should not get married naked.
Why do all men get married naked? Although women's love for material is a biological instinct, it is a matter of course, but now many women love material far more than their boyfriends.
Why shouldn't women get married naked? It is also because women's love for material is a biological instinct. Many women may think: "If there is no good material foundation, after giving birth to children, they may lose at the starting line miserably.
No house, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding dress, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon ... "Naked marriage"?