The premise is that you two agree on a time period and explain the specific time to both parents. With the cooperation of parents, the man will go to the woman's house with gifts and gifts to discuss the engagement. Or in the hotel, it is also possible to meet by phone = = = the specific time and place of the dinner (the number of participants can also be refined). In layman's terms, it is to eat together and meet and communicate. This is the first time. Generally, two times is enough (the second time is exactly the same as the first time, and you can discuss the bride price and agree on the wedding date. ) date: the woman usually considers the child's physical condition to avoid the embarrassment of the bridal chamber. Now this society ignores this point. It makes no difference whether there is a matchmaker or not. The above is what we call "Si Qi" in Yexian County. The above is based on the relationship between two people, and everything is easy to say. As for how much to spend, just do what you can, be sincere and enthusiastic-(200 gifts can cost 400, Furong Wang can also spend 400 on a cigarette, and you can also buy Chinese, absolutely)-pure hands.