Marriage is very important, because different levels, different lifestyles and different cultural attainments make it difficult to get married together, especially in cities and rural areas. Although the two young people have a good relationship, the old people on both sides just can't get along. City people don't know the rules and hygiene, and rural people don't like the arrogance of the city. In the end, many people divorced because of the disagreement between the two elderly people. For girls, this should be beyond reproach. With a boyfriend and a husband, who doesn't depend on him? But girls, if you just start socializing, this dependence is necessary for boys. But do you really know other boys? Especially single or married men.

Many men want to have their own independent space and don't want to spend too much time on women, so if you are particularly dependent on the other half, it is easy to be disharmonious. This is not contradictory to their respective family economies. If you all have a spiritual world, many topics or interests should be in the same world, and there are few contradictions or disharmonies. They don't find their ideas hard to understand and endure. If the shoes don't fit, you can see through the courage. Everyone has his own circle. If two people in this circle have the same personality, hobbies, quality, accomplishment and education, then life will be relatively comfortable. On the contrary, there will be contradictions and jokes. Marriage pays attention to "the right family", that is, when a man marries a woman, the wealth status of the two families must be equal to be happy.

This view is actually a foreshadowing for both parties to the marriage to buy in the future. Why do I say that? Because if the wealth status difference between the two families changes on that day, the other party may show disdain and contempt for the other party. Once this "no" attitude is formed, the stability of marriage will be affected. When you decide to get married, it not only means who you want to choose as your husband, but also means what lifestyle you will choose to spend the rest of your life with him.

People often say that falling in love may be a matter for two people. Two people can fall in love as long as they get an electric shock in an instant. But marriage must not be about two people, because marriage involves two huge families, including the love crystallization that you will be together in the future. Some people say that freedom of marriage is an old tradition and concept of feudal superstition that is now out of date; Some people say that I want this person in front of me. Talking to me about material things, money and status is so vulgar. Love is full of water, and only with love can happiness be achieved.