In fact, in the past, people were very particular about giving gifts and red envelopes, and there were strict requirements: first of all, they should sign their names according to their parents' grandparents' living conditions. For example, if the other party is a married woman, 1: One parent is present, write: Clothing Department: all waiters, * * *; 2. The father is: strict service * * *; 3. The mother is * * *. Signature: same surname, only signature, different surname: signature.
Writing: According to different happy events: If the child is born to handle wine, it will be divided into three dynasties, and then write: Tang Jing; If brewing for half a month, write Jing Wong; If it is a full moon, write (death) respect; One year old: ten years old. Girls should have a big birthday party when they turn 20. Because after this age, they will get married, and they will no longer belong to their parents' family. Just like the weak crown of an ancient boy, it is a rite of passage.
Birthday celebrations are generally based on full age, some places are based on nominal age and real age, and there are also men and women with nominal age. Those under 60 are written as "Zhu Jing" and those over 60 are written as "Shoujing".
In addition, if you give a wedding gift, it depends on which party you marry. If you are a man, you can write a gift; if you are a woman, you can write a gift.
It is said that there is a folk book that specializes in various etiquette documents, called & gt, but I haven't read it, and it may not be published.
How to write all kinds of red envelopes:
He Yi: Universal for weddings, funerals and weddings.
Yi Yi: Send the bride away.
Tang Yi: Three Dynasties wine.
Wang Yi: Half moon wine.
Mi yi: full moon wine
Japanese pawn document: old wine, note: the word (Japanese pawn).
Zhu Jing: General Motors has been in business for more than five years.
Qin Yi: Learn to use wine.
Li Rang: Blessing wine.
English one: Because I drink at home.
Fragrance: Except for spirits and wine.
Yi Yan: Done.
First meaning: 70-year-old General Motors
Xue Jing: 10th birthday.
Guan Jing: 20th birthday.
Li Jing: 30th birthday.
Shi Jing: 40th birthday.
Ai Jing: 50th birthday.
Ear respect: 60th birthday.
Cong Jing: 70th birthday
Ji Jing: 80th birthday.
Mao Jing: 90th birthday.
Yi: centenary birthday
Instrument: adoption
Ceremony: awards and seals
Pulse meter: Dr. Xie
Renyi: replacing meat
Hanyi: Runbi
Yi Rong: A haircut.
Step instrument: matchmaker, high relative
Grace: Parental support.
Cheng Yi: Open the jar.
Attachment: All the formats listed above should be written in column form.
To be continued: writing the appellation of folk gift red envelopes
Look up:
Wedding Ceremony-Marrying a wife (drinking the man's wedding wine)
Pink rice-getting married (drinking the woman's wedding wine)
Shroud-birthday
Robe instrument-drinking the boy's full moon wine
Drink the girl's full moon wine
Yi Yan-drinking wine from the new house.
Wen Yi-Congratulations on your admission to university (middle school).
Rules-go out of town and be a sponsor of Pan Chuan.
Ceremony.-Oh! Someone died (wrapped in white paper)
Signature:
XXX sets (or "congratulations")
Zt: Writing: For those who do good deeds, write the word "He Yi" in the upper right corner of the front of the red envelope, and write "Congratulations" in the lower left corner; Those who do white things can write "incense instrument", "drink offering instrument" and "sacrifice instrument" vertically in the middle of the front of the white bag, and write "so-and-so sacrifice" in the lower left corner. Generally, the last "vertical" of the word "so-and-so offering" is vertical to the end, which is feudal! Ha ha!
Vertical writing: write the name of the person who received the red envelope at the top right, write a congratulatory message in the middle, and write the name of the person who sent the red envelope at the bottom left! All right!
Horizontal writing: write the name of the person who received the red envelope at the top left, write a congratulatory message in the middle, and write the name of the person who sent the red envelope at the bottom right! All right!
1. Sign the terms of the red envelope:
1, thanks to the media pack sign language:
Yi Ke's respect for the magpie bridge is harmonious and harmonious, Qin Jin; Respect for the bridge instrument is respect for the red line; Bing Yi holds the surnames of Ke Zhijing and En Ming.
2, the wedding package sign language:
Powder instrument to return home; The Yi Shi family.
3. Terms of signing the engagement letter:
The respect of alliance, text, contact and Qin Jin.
4, wedding package sign language:
Wedding ceremony for a hundred years, its prosperity, husband and wife, harmony; Fan Yi's newly married happiness will always be a harmonious couple; Jay weaving Xie Lianli and his wife Cheng Xiang
5. Language used when signing the package of congratulations, marriage and marrying a wife:
The Joy of New Weng and the Joy of Xuantang
6. Congratulations on the signing of the package agreement:
Worship of the second wife
7. Congratulations on remarriage. Language of packaging signs:
Let's drink to reunion, the second plum blossom.
8. Terms of the second wedding package:
Respect for changing strings of flute instruments
9, the bride's bow sign language:
Respect Guilin xiangche
10, looking at the new husband's back door, wrapped in a sign:
The essence of the jade toe first spinning halberd.
1 1, thanks for the signature of the account office package:
Respect the pen and moisten it.
12, Xie Maidang sign language:
Etiquette, praise and respect
13, thank you for choosing the date to sign for the package:
Respect the choice of tools and dates.
14. Chef Xie's packaging sign language:
Incense vessel and tripod blessing.
Two. Common greetings for red envelopes:
May you two be kind and love each other, and your love will never change and increase day by day!
Let this lingering poem ring the bell of happiness. May you two love each other forever and grow old together!
Bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as happy as you! I wish you a long and happy life! Grow old!
Beaded wall bridal chamber is warm in spring and full of fish.
Today is your wedding day. On behalf of my family, I congratulate you and wish you happiness and a long life together.
Thousands of years of marriage, thousands of years of sleep. Born with both talents and looks, he only envies Yuanyang but not immortals.
It takes a hundred years to cross the boat and a thousand years to sleep on the pillow. Meeting in the vast sea of people is clearly the fate of thousands of years ago. Love you and care for this fate with your heart!
Flowers put on colorful clothes, dance gracefully and happily, and the breeze sings gently, singing a euphemistic and touching wedding March-I wish you a hundred years of harmony and unity forever!
I have worked hard for half my life and contributed for decades. On this warm spring day, I congratulate you on your remarriage. As the saying goes, "Seeing the sun, all his glory and day lilies are late"!
May love fill your sweet life and make every day in the future as bright and happy as today!
I'm sorry that I can't express my blessing in person at your wedding. I wish you and your wife a harmonious and happy family!
Hey! Dude. Married so soon. I can't come because of something. But I still want to sincerely wish you a happy wedding! Be careful of your health!
In this spring day, you two will always be together. As the saying goes, a perfect match is made in heaven and a perfect match is made in earth! I wish you both love each other and grow old together!
Reach out your loving hand, accept Yingying's blessing, let happiness bloom and welcome your future days ... I wish you a happy wedding!
It takes a hundred years to cross the boat and a thousand years to sleep on the pillow. Congratulations on your happy marriage!
What does the fairy want? They just envy Yuanyang. I wish you both a happy wedding and a long life together!
Congratulations! Congratulations! Congratulations on your promotion! Although this is a belated love, I am still very happy for you. I am waiting for you to invite us to dinner with full enthusiasm.
Lotus flowers stand side by side, feeling like brothers; The branches of the tree are planted together and have the same spirit! I wish you a hundred years of harmony and fly with me!
Golden House celebrates Cai Feng and bridal chamber celebrates Lapras.
May you be United and happy forever! Happy wedding, sweet and sweet!
Congratulations on finding a good home! May you step into the hall of love! Looking forward to your early birth!
You two are kind and loving, with deep feelings. Love will last forever in this life, and your love will increase day by day!
You are made for each other. You are made for each other. Now that we are married, we need to tolerate and take care of each other in the future. Bless you!
The sun is auspicious, the weather is sunny, and the husband and wife are harmonious, Ming Xi; After a hundred years of harmony, the wedding candle shines;
The guests are happy and play the flute for a long time, and the husband and wife are United and self-reliant; Everyone envies creating a world miracle.
The flute is boiling, and the fairy is beside the piano. The stork magpie invited the bright moon in the past, and the pheasant dove started to sing the wind today, and Kong Le met his fate.
Lotus can be seen, and red candle has a high fever. In addition to the treasure fan, the flowers and the moon meet again, fragrant and graceful, and the face is doubly charming.
There is no end, and the desire for words is low. Tankou emblem contains musk, cherry lips lightly cover rhinoceros, and the heart is full of love.
Listen to the sound, silver leaks and flowers move. Teach the maid to teach an feng pillow, put rouge on her back, and be ashamed to answer the lamp.
When it's deeper, cover the screen window. Ruyi planted the lilian tree together and spit acacia flowers with one heart, winning the credit of Wuling.
Aromatic plants are warm, so they must be used as honeymoon nests. Beautiful dark parrot language, gentle new work, phoenix phoenix, learn to take it when it is properly spent.
In the depths, fairy liquid seeped out of Xia Dan. Cardamom is fragrant and comfortable in spring, but I don't know how to embroider the curtain after sleeping for a long time.
The morning is moving, and the dream wakes up. About Lang Xiumei Dai Wu, first teach Nong to manage the temple. It takes more than two minutes.
Fish and water have been combined for thousands of years, and so has Lan Zhi for one hundred years.
Good luck, courtesy and civilization; The piano plays elegant music, and the couple respect each other as guests;
Poetry is sung in return, and Changchun is good; Qi Xin made concerted efforts, pioneered and innovated, and made contributions to the four modernizations.
In spring, the bridal chamber is stacked, and the tenderness and sweetness set each other off.
The beauty of the face does not change, and it is pretty and ruddy.
It's thoughtful to cross the galaxy again.
Xiao leads the phoenix to fly on the spring platform.
There are plans before the wedding reception, and songs are played to welcome the new couple.
Today, I repeat string, sandalwood mouth and slender waist willow.
There is nothing wrong with being more gorgeous than an old lover.
Fish has been hydrated for a thousand years, and Lan Zhi is a hundred times;
Good luck, courtesy and civilization;
The piano plays elegant music, and the couple respect each other as guests;
Poetry is sung in return, and Changchun is good;
Qi Xin made concerted efforts, pioneered and innovated, and made contributions to the four modernizations.
Wen Ding's auspicious marriage matches a life-long alliance, and the marriage promises life.
The woman's parents are married-the joy of your daughter's return/your daughter's respect for makeup.
Congratulations on marrying a woman-to go home, to leave the house, to the boudoir, to the house, and to go straight home.
marry
Congratulations to the man-the joy of marriage/the joy of Yan 'er/the joy of description.
Congratulations to the woman-the joy of returning home/getting married/mending makeup
Congratulations to men and women-the joy of marriage/the joy of Yu Fei
Wedding wine-have a nice honeymoon/congratulations.
Remarriage-the joy of a beautiful description/the joy of a second marriage
Preside over a wedding
Father's marriage-the happiness of the new Weng/the happiness of the left Weng/the happiness of the overlapping Weng (not the first marriage)
Mother's Marriage —— Happiness of New Aunt
Brother's Marriage-Joy of New Uncle/Joy of Crown Brother
Uncle's Marriage-The Joy of New Bo Weng
Uncle gets married-the joy of new uncle Weng
Grandfather Married-The Joy of New Taiwan Province
The specifications are as follows:
(From top to bottom on the left) to big brother (such as your brother).
(Center) (If it is moving) The joy of moving.
(On the right, lower) My brother/sister (your name, if you are a couple, write two names+couple). Congratulations (date, optional)
It's best to use red paper and black words. Money is sealed with bonus (red envelope) and gifts are packaged. Then write a greeting card with hard red paper and put a small red envelope.
Every time I get married, my relatives and friends will give gifts.
In addition, you have to attach a post with the gift, which is vertical and written from right to left. Whenever there is more than one person's name, the elder is in the middle, and the others are arranged in turn. Don't write "worship together" at the back, but write "bow down" If father and son, grandparents and uncles post together, then write XXX (elder) to worship XXX, and brothers post together to worship XXX; Couples also say "together" when posting; Father and son, grandparents and grandchildren can only say "rate", not "together". Every wedding card should be written in double lines, and attention should be paid to the words and sentences. Even if the gift is one, it should be written as "full", "successful", "double" and "couplet". These words are forbidden to be used in evil rituals. Anyone who accepts gifts from others should thank each other for a thank-you note and several gifts. If you don't accept it, you should still write a "thank you for your kindness" post and send it back with the gift. This is called "wall ceremony". If you are offering wine to your elders, you should also write the words "Cheng Xian's so-and-so collar". The woman married a guest and wrote: "One day, my daughter came back to propose a toast and asked someone to worship." When people marry a woman, they write, "I sincerely wish you a certain (gift), respect you and worship you a certain (gift)." All the above invitations should be in red paper and black letters. Married women don't stick couplets, and men should use red paper and gold powder couplets when they get married. Most of the couplets at the entrance of Yingbin Lane and the entrance of the village are: "Sweep the Lane to welcome guests and play the flute to attract phoenix". Couplets in wine halls and kitchens are mostly words of rest, such as "A little gentleman driving for a while can make an old friend happy" and "I don't enjoy many guests, but I still drink more to pretend to be light". The couplet of Guletang wrote: "Five tones play Yuanyang spectrum, and six tones blow into graceful songs"; Or: "music, music, piano, tune the swallow." Couples' couplets in the bridal chamber are "Going to Taoyuan Cave privately in the past and visiting the Moon Palace Gate tomorrow"; Or "I used to live in Yuefu, but I want to meet Chang 'e tonight" and so on. Horizontal criticism is mostly polite words such as "husband and wife and chicken" and "love is like oxygen". If the groom's elders are still alive, the couplets where they live will also read "Jujube's grandson's new wife will be offered on the doorstep, and Great Uncle will enter the hall"; Or humming the joy of Jia Gongzi to spoil your mood, menstruation Huan uncle's daughter-in-law also followed whispering. It depends on their qualifications. If the groom is a younger brother, his brother's sister-in-law's residence will write couplets, such as: Lord Sidi can continue his ambition, and his brother's model is Qijia. Lovers and Yuanyang, Fulu, are born together, and they get along well for a hundred years, a hundred years, and a harmonious relationship. Guan Ju, Yi Xi II, a family, a natural couple, United and fighting in Datong, Yuanyang, Sanxing, family planning couplets, a hundred years of harmony, a couple, the fifth generation Bu Qichang, Li Xie, civilization, harmonious relationship and four modernizations.
Traditional greeting cards are as follows:
(From top to bottom on the right): Prepare wedding gifts (or give wedding gifts) to congratulate your eldest brother (older than you) and your son.
(Middle): The joy of being on the top list (high school)
(Bottom left): Uncle (or sister) (Your name. If it is a couple, write two names+couple) Congratulations (date)
Red paper in black (or gold). Give money with a red stamp (red envelope). Send gifts after packaging. Write a greeting card on hard red paper. Clip a small red envelope.