Gift-giving: According to the general custom, everyone attending the wedding banquet should prepare a small gift, wrap it in red paper or specially printed double happiness characters, and put in the appropriate gift. The amount of the gift depends on the guest's financial situation and the close relationship with the bride and groom, but it is best to take even numbers, including "Lu" six, "Fa" eight and "grow old together" one.
Seating: Attend the wedding according to the guide of the host or the host. If there is no guidance, you can sit with familiar relatives and friends, but be careful not to take the initiative to sit at the "couple table" or "parents table". It is polite to take food and eat while eating.
Toast: When the bride and groom toast at each table, everyone stands up and raises their glasses, and gently clinks glasses with the couple before saying "congratulations". Don't get the bride and groom drunk, don't ramble, and control the time for the newlyweds to propose a toast at each table within 3 minutes, so that they can finish the banquet smoothly and enter the bridal chamber in advance. At the same time, don't make a hullabaloo about at the banquet, and drink moderately to avoid being rude after being drunk.
Scatter confetti: At the wedding, people smile and scatter confetti to the sky, to the bride and groom, and to the guests who come to congratulate. This custom originated in Italy. In the Middle Ages, anyone who attended an Italian wedding would sprinkle a handful of colorful candy on the couple and wish them a sweet life. /kloc-in the 0 th and 9 th centuries, people changed to sprinkle colored confetti instead of candy.