Sister Zhang:
I should be divorced soon. No matter who comes to persuade me to get back together, I won't consider it.
The year before last, my family was going to be demolished. My mother asked me to marry a small white-collar worker in a company with a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand. I look honest, just sitting every day. His belly is a little big, as if he had been pregnant for six months. My parents said it was good, so I broke up with another cancer man who pursued me.
When we were in love, he seldom contacted me, as if he didn't feel passionately married. But after marriage, I found that he was not good at all. He was not interested in me, and we didn't go to the exam on the day of getting the certificate. I am a conservative person, and I never shared a room with him before I got married. It usually ends in two or three minutes, and I feel that he doesn't care about me very much. For example, if I work overtime at night and come home late, he won't pick me up and buy clothes or something, and I'll pay for it myself.
After our house was demolished, we were allocated 900 thousand yuan, and there was a house with my parents, me and him. The child is over one year old now, and I now file for divorce. He asked his parents to share 200,000 yuan, and he wanted to take 200,000 yuan, and the child was mine. I gave birth to his family for nothing, and my family paid for the wedding. This man actually made such a request. What should I do, Sister Zhang?
I regret it too. At that time, in order to have a house, I got married early and tried to get married. At that time, Cancer Man kept dragging his feet. He doesn't want to get married so soon. I saw no hope, so I broke up. As a result, I have money and money now, and I am still a divorced woman who gave birth to a child. At that time, it was still a hot commodity, and the gap was too big. Cancer man also came to see me, but he said his parents couldn't accept that I had children. I think men are selfish. He doesn't want to help me raise my children and others.
Sister Zhang, what should I do?
Reply:
He is not interested in you, even eating brain fragments will not get better. He married you for the same purpose as you. In order to divide the house, you have no emotional foundation, but you have a child. Such a family is not stable at all.
If a man loves you, he doesn't want to lose touch with you. If he doesn't contact you, you can take him to the Civil Affairs Bureau. You will get married whichever your mother says will marry you. Why don't you tell your mother that he kills two birds with one stone by eating whirlwind and sleeping whirlwind. If you give the child to him, you will be in greater trouble. I will ask you for alimony in the future, and the child will get sick in the future. Can such a person be kind to children? Surrogacy costs tens of thousands of dollars. If you have a child, you have to pay alimony and breakup fees. This account is bigger than my loss if I don't do real estate or have a wedding.
You cancer man, don't take it to heart. A good man won't keep a woman he likes waiting. He is always ready to spend his life with you. Knowing whether to share a room or not to be with you will waste your time and youth. What do you miss and regret? Cancer man doesn't want to give you a home. You're not married and he doesn't want to marry you. You're divorced, and he cares about you. He sympathizes with you. The only purpose is to sleep with you and pretend that his parents can't accept it. That's an excuse. He wants to sleep with you for free, irresponsible, and he won't get married without paying.
Men are selfish and want to raise their own children, but I have been married for six years and met a great father. He regards his wife and ex-husband's children as his own because he loves his wife. He felt that when he met his wife, it was too late, which made her very painful. He is very upset. He is reluctant to let this woman have another child and suffer again. He blamed himself for appearing too late, rather than blaming the woman for having a drag bottle.
If a man is married, he can continue to look for unmarried women. If a woman marries, it depends on your personal charm and economic strength. If you are ugly, it's even harder. If you are a beautiful woman, who cares if you are married?
If a man is rich, well, jack shall have Jill.
Women have talent, looks and emotional intelligence. Everything you have is your capital, except your children.
Your ex-husband doesn't love you, and Cancer Man doesn't love you either, but you have to love yourself and give this bastard how much money. You let the court decide. Tell him to pack his clothes and get out of your world.
It is a foolish decision to exchange your marriage and children for a house. Even if you get the compensation for demolition, you can't make up for the failure of your marriage. Find someone who loves you. If you are not good in bed, let him go down and you don't have to come up again. I can't stand you having a baby, saying that your parents don't agree, using your parents as a shield and pretending to be very emotional. Why don't you go to the entertainment circle to develop your acting skills? Don't say it, just be happy, don't say it or get out, and don't waste time making friends with them. With this time, it is not bad to find a man seriously or start a business.