First of all, no woman will refuse a man who is kind to herself when she is single.
I am deeply worried about the way you know her. You have to face considerable competitiveness. The same man can touch her in the same way and think she is a good girl.
People who just started college don't like long-distance relationships, not to mention that you are an older senior. The whole high school doesn't count
Then, she chats with you happily through various forms of the internet every day. I can see that she often goes to Q, and she is also a Weibo-controlled girl. Half of the people who often go to Q are lonely, especially invisible. Half of them have the ability to chat with many people at the same time as a way to keep in touch with each other.
Then, on your third day in Kunming, you suddenly feel strange when you meet her. You must understand that you are still you then, and she is you now.
You can understand the refusal in the future! How dare you express yourself in front of your friends? If she says yes to you, friends will say something behind your back: "Oh! She used to like her uncle! " Are you shy or enthusiastic in front of your friends?
She refuses you, "Oh! It turns out that she can attract even uncles! "
Along the way, she has never drawn a line with you, mainly because she is lonely. Girls also need love, but she didn't find it at school, and you can meet it.
The reason why you stay at this level is obviously that you don't want to determine the current relationship between men and women with you, but you don't want to lose a good friend, a minister under the skirt and a life buoy. You wait, wait for her to graduate, wait for her to become realistic, and you will succeed in finding her again.
Maybe you didn't like this type at that time.
The premise is that you become stronger and work hard.