Is that why you don't get married? -Of course not. Although "marriage is a sweet disaster", as long as you are prepared, marriage will be the most perfect first time.
As one of the important events in life, marriage is trivial and complicated, but in any case, in order to live a happy life, the pace of marriage should be step by step, so that perfection can quietly enter your heart and his (her).
Step 1: Register
Although more and more young people are trying to get married and live together without marriage, it is essential to get a stable and guaranteed happiness.
Marriage registration procedure
Marriage registration place: the marriage registration office where one of the men and women accounts.
Proof of carrying:
1. Resident ID card.
2. Household registration book (or collective household registration book).
3. Proof of marital status ① Fixed employees and retired employees shall be issued by their units ② Unemployed persons and individual unemployed persons shall be issued by neighborhood (village) committees ③ Unemployed persons and self-employed persons shall also provide labor manuals (or licenses).
3 4.2-inch color photos, and 3 recent bareheaded 2-inch monochrome photos. The colors of the two photos are the same, and the marriage registry provides Polaroid snapshot service.
Premarital physical examination:
1. Based on the above certificate, the district and county civil affairs bureau issued a letter of introduction for premarital medical examination.
2. With the letter of introduction, to the district and county maternal and child health hospital for physical examination.
3. If the medical certificate meets the requirements, it shall be returned to the Civil Affairs Bureau for registration with the medical certificate. Others need to pay marriage license fee and service fee.
Get a marriage certificate: after receiving the application, the marriage registration authority will examine the parties in accordance with the provisions of the marriage law. After the registration is approved, both men and women must be present at the same time to receive the red marriage certificate.
Step 2: Prepare for the wedding.
Can a wedding be held without a wedding reception? This is the most annoying problem for young people in cities when they get married. In fact, it is not impossible, and it can be completely replaced by travel marriage or simple ceremony. However, when more and more young people adopt "simple" marriage methods, we pay more attention to those young people who can't "avoid customs" but are worried about it.
Countdown of wedding planning
Eight to six months ago:
Choose the wedding date, decorate the new house, decide the wedding form and budget, predict the guest list and book the banquet, choose a photography dress company, order the dress, consult both parents, actively participate in and understand the family life of both parties, and conduct pre-marital health examination.
Three months ago: Understand the wedding etiquette, find the ceremony place, estimate the cost, buy wedding rings and jewelry, do hairdressing and beauty, maintain the whole body, plan the future financial management and birth plan, and arrange the honeymoon trip.
Two months ago: I bought new house furniture, took wedding photos, designed hair styles and makeup, designed wedding invitations, determined the list of groomsmen and bridesmaids, and applied for passports (such as honeymoon trips abroad).
One and a half months ago: Buy furniture and household appliances, invite officiating guests and referees, determine the details of honeymoon trip, book a gift car, and apply for marriage leave from the company.
A month ago: Decided the wedding details, decided the photographer and cameraman, purchased the items needed for the honeymoon, printed wedding invitations and decorated the new house.
One week ago: send out wedding invitations, confirm guests by phone, book honeymoon trips and hotels, finalize various matters with hotels, including dishes, number of tables, banquet areas, determine the list of wedding staff, and book bridal bouquets, bridesmaid bouquets, various corsages and fireworks in the limousine. Clean the new house.
Two days ago: I ordered cigarettes, wine, soda, candy and melon seeds for the banquet that day. Wedding supplies are sent to the wedding venue, and all kinds of maintenance are done in the beauty salon. Send the wedding invitation to the designated guests, reconfirm the details and time with the wedding staff, check the clothes that should be taken during the honeymoon trip, arrange the wedding venue, and finalize all matters with the wedding venue again.
The day before: maintain the whole body skin, confirm the beauty salon time for the next day with the beautician, provide the gift money and red envelopes needed for the wedding day, and determine the wedding dress. The jewelry, accessories and shoes you need the next day should be put away and get enough sleep (don't drink too much water before going to bed).
The schedule of the wedding day: have a hearty breakfast, invite one or two friends to take care of the sundries and help change the dress. The man will prepare gifts to greet the bride at the woman's house, entertain the guests and live a happy and sweet wedding life.
Step 3: Take a wedding photo.
Who doesn't want to let the once-in-a-lifetime brilliant moment freeze forever and let that happy moment last forever? Then, go to the photo studio to take wedding photos. Maybe this is your only choice.
Wedding studio introduction
Taking wedding photos has become an indispensable part of weddings. Wedding shops of all sizes in the market have launched many wedding photography service packages, with prices ranging from several hundred yuan to several thousand yuan. The fee is determined according to the quality of service, the number of choices, the photo size, the material of the photo frame, the background of the photo and the number of makeup and hairstyle designs.
Modern people pay attention to value for money. What determines the price of wedding photos? What services do you have? What preferential policies can I enjoy? These are all concerns of consumers.
Generally speaking, every photo studio will have a master bedroom suite recommended, which is the most popular and general one in a photo studio, and the service and value ratio contained in it will generally be accepted by customers. Such a set of scenery that meets certain standards generally includes: interior and exterior scenes when shooting, more than two or three sets of costume modeling, a large photo album, several large photos with small frames of different sizes, photos and negatives, etiquette services on the wedding day, and perhaps gifts.
What's the difference between the prices of various sets? Low-priced, below 800 yuan are generally pure wedding photos (some wedding shops do not provide location shooting), photographic negatives are not given or given in small quantities, there is no wedding service or only the most basic contents such as bride's makeup and dress rental. In 900 yuan, there are basic contents that cost more than 2,000 yuan, and those that cost 45,000 yuan to 10000 yuan are perfect in shooting environment, staff, number of photo albums, weddings and various gifts. The difference between various price points is mainly the number of sets of modeling, the number of photos, the special production of photos and the number of albums. Collect the number of photo albums and wedding service content. The number of pictures and modeling sets in shooting depends on the price, ranging from one roll to four or five rolls. The production of photos is classified according to the characteristics of each store, modern fashion trends and prices. The number of albums and the number of photos in albums are the lower the price, the higher the price. Generally, there will be one or more than four or five thousand large photo albums. The size of the photo album, the exquisite degree of decoration and the number of photos in the photo album will change with the price. The higher the price, the more gifts. In addition, it is related to the special production and quantity of big pictures. The number of wedding services also fluctuates with the price. The most basic thing is the bride's makeup, and then the dress. Only one set can be provided at a low price, and more than two sets of wedding dresses and evening dresses can be provided at a high price. Then the matching jewelry. The bride's wedding dress, wedding invitation, and even the bridesmaid's makeup, dress, wedding photography, video and other details depend on the price.
Details that should be paid attention to before taking pictures.
1. The day before the photo shoot, relax, go to bed early, and drink less water before going to bed to avoid eye edema the next day. Only when you get enough sleep can you take more energetic and radiant photos.
2. Jewelry, stockings and shoes needed for taking photos should be prepared and put away. Don't wear too much jewelry when taking pictures.
3. The bride should wear clothes with an open front, so as not to spoil the makeup and hairstyle on her face when changing into a wedding dress.
4. The groom's suit should fit to avoid inconvenient gestures.
Newcomers' hair care, haircut and perm should be done one month before taking photos, and skin care should start one week before taking photos.
6. Wear strapless underwear when wearing a wedding dress. If you are wearing a Chinese evening dress, you'd better wear padded or rims underwear to beautify the chest lines.
Tips for saving wedding dresses
Buy a wedding dress and go home. After the wedding, you should carefully hide it at the bottom of the box and keep it for a lifetime. However, if you entrust it to the small laundry on the street easily, you may regret it for a lifetime-because the maintenance of wedding dresses is very different from other expensive clothes. But as long as you master a few tips, it is not difficult to clean and save the wedding dress.
First of all, when you buy it, you can ask what material this wedding dress is made of, and what is the emphasis on the attached beads and shiny things. Under normal circumstances, the host will know everything and say everything. Wet washing is the key to washing wedding dresses, because small decorations on wedding dresses, such as beads, can't stand the erosion of dry cleaning chemicals. The best way is to soak the wedding dress in water mixed with mild and neutral detergent for a while, so as to clean the stains left by red wine and meat oil on the banquet, and then soak for a while, even invisible stains such as sweat stains and wine stains can be removed. After the wedding dress is washed and dried, it can be stored in a cool and dry place, such as a wardrobe or even under the bed. Remember, don't hang up the wedding dress, because with the growth of age, a wedding dress with a little weight will produce vertical force, which will lengthen or even tear the skirt.
There are two small problems that must be mentioned: first, you must wash your hands before receiving the wedding dress, and don't stick on cosmetics, otherwise there will be small yellow spots on the wedding dress after a long time; Also, the big skirt hoop in the wedding dress can be turned up for collection, but when hanging clothes every year, the skirt hoop should be restored to its original state to avoid losing its elasticity.
The eve of passion
The wedding is coming, but everyone is scratching their heads. What should we do now? After all, this is not the specialty of young people, because it is something they have never experienced. Look at the following article, and you will be suddenly enlightened.
Choose when to get married.
Choosing when to get married is something that a couple and their parents attach great importance to. In today's society, it is popular to choose even-numbered days as auspicious days, such as February 2 and August 8. It is believed that there is a pair of meanings, which indicates that the husband and wife will love each other and grow old together after marriage, and the homonym of "eight" is "hair", which is also an expectation for future life. The choice of "auspicious day" should seek the opinions of both parents and make arrangements from a scientific point of view. There are two points to note:
First, the wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the opinions of the woman.
Second, we should consider the arrangements of all parties. If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people wear festive clothes to add spice; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends and family for the holidays.
Choose where to hold the wedding.
How to choose a suitable banquet venue in so many places? In addition to considering the area and price, the quality of food and service provided by the venue, the environment and spacing of the venue are all factors that newcomers consider.
Regional choice. Newcomers can consider whether the location they choose is close to their new home, man's home, woman's home and relatives' home. At the same time, we should pay attention to whether the location is convenient for transportation, such as near subway stations and bus stations, and whether there is a parking place nearby.
Reservation rules should be clear. Large-scale banquets involve more than 10,000 yuan, so you should not take it lightly when ordering banquets. Fees and service scope should be clearly written in black and white, and no verbal promises can be made. The following are some points to pay attention to when booking a banquet and writing a menu:
The dishes on the menu should be detailed. Don't accept some ambiguous words, such as "steamed seafood at sea" or "dragons and phoenixes spread their wings". , and specify the content. Whether sea cucumber, shark's fin and suckling pig are whole or part should be listed one by one.
When you make a reservation, you must clearly list the name of the hall where the wine is placed on the order, so as to avoid being too crowded or scattered in the future.
When booking a seat, you should reserve the bride's lounge, and make sure that the bride's room is not too far and too narrow to be easily peeped. Because new people need to change clothes and make up, spring is not good at first blow. Clearly list the price of each charge, such as tea, bottle opening fee, beer, soda, pre-dinner snacks, service fee, etc.
Before paying the deposit, ask clearly what to do with the deposit and whether to compensate for the loss if the wedding banquet is cancelled due to bad weather or unexpected events. Of course, you must not forget to ask for a deposit receipt. Need to be clear about the number of seats that can be increased or decreased, and how to deal with the remaining banquets. When budgeting the number of tables, we should consider the attendance rate of guests to avoid some embarrassing situations due to insufficient or excessive guests.
When booking a banquet, there should be some arrangements for the host's seat. Other guests generally have no special restrictions, and most of them are on a first-come-first-served basis. If you choose to get married in the wedding season, you should make an appointment in advance, especially in some popular places. Now many wedding banquet owners will arrange seats for their guests in advance to avoid offending relatives and friends because they are in a hurry. Therefore, a systematic approach is to arrange seats in advance and assign station numbers, so that guests can take their places and everyone will be happy.
Checkpoint on the eve of the wedding
1. Lock the target. I'm married, for my sister's sake, choose the best sister, and aim at the attack when throwing flowers tomorrow! (Please check her marriage intention first)
2. Smooth and flawless. Check the latest hair growth in all parts of the body and pay attention to the fine hair on the lips!
3. Check the records. Refers to the time and place of getting to know her husband, getting an electric shock, getting engaged, kissing for the first time, proposing marriage, etc. Every detail will be played or played tomorrow, and she can handle it.
4. Practice your vows. "I am willing to marry …" In order to avoid being speechless when reading the oath tomorrow, practice more!
5. Lubricate the ring finger. In order to avoid mental and physical tension, tight fingers and swelling tomorrow, you can't wear wedding rings ... please apply more hand cream.
6. Iced tea bag. I'm tired of getting married, and my dark circles are almost gone. Don't you accidentally lose sleep tonight? Find a (more than a few) Huang Ju tea bags, put them in the refrigerator, and ice them tomorrow, so you can get swollen eyes! Remember to rest for a while after applying, or close your eyes for a while.
7. Find the right angle. Look in the mirror and see which angle is the best. Sanqi face or front face? Don't forget, the flash will be aimed at you tomorrow!
8. Finally, check whether tights and sexy underwear are intact.
9. Relax, don't be nervous, relax, put on some light music, take a fragrant bubble bath, and prepare for a beautiful day tomorrow!
Step 5: Wedding
Although it is the first time to get married, the wedding protagonist is also dressed for the first time, but after all, there are many weddings attended, and young people know the general situation of the wedding. Here are just some suggestions to make the couple who play the leading role more comfortable to "attend" their own wedding.
Entertainment skills of male and female protagonists
Wedding banquets are usually held after the wedding, but modern banquets are gradually changed to evening and the location is gradually changed to restaurants. Most wedding banquets have certain procedures. The bride usually has to change 3-5 sets of different evening dresses, and she can perform costumes to her heart's content, and she is the only heroine ... except for toasting, thanking guests and seeing off, most newcomers will not leave their seats. But on the one hand, we should pay attention to the clothes, on the other hand, we should pay attention to the people coming and going, so most of them can't eat. So it's important to eat more before the wedding reception. Know the background of the guests in advance.
It is very important to have a general understanding of the guests before the wedding reception, because there are both friends of the man and the woman, some of whom may not have been in contact before, so knowing the invitation list and photo album in advance can greatly avoid the embarrassing scene at the wedding reception.
Deal with a wine fight
At the wedding reception, the bride and groom will inevitably be toasted by relatives and friends, but they must be half-hearted. At first, they must not show that the cups are generous, otherwise both old friends and new friends will toast you. Being drunk will not only affect the whole wedding banquet, but also ruin the "good thing" of the bridal chamber! Therefore, before the wedding reception, we must be prepared to choose two best men and bridesmaids who can drink and speak eloquently as shields. This is a must!
Handle entertainment programs
In the later stage of the wedding banquet, there will be some small games as interludes for newcomers to Doby, which is the most difficult time in the past. At this time, newcomers should try their best to show generosity and cater to them (even if there are some more open programs, such as kissing in public and feeding grapes). ), otherwise the more you wriggle, the more you will be booed and fall into the set trap. This period of time is to finish one program at a time, the sooner the better. As long as Qi Xin makes concerted efforts, the first "difficulty" in life will be realized and the historical mission of the wedding banquet will be completed.
How to add wedding atmosphere
It's not easy for guests to remember you at a wedding reception. Here are some impressive tips.
1. Put a message card in the invitation and ask the guests to write down their congratulations or feelings on the card. Then put it into the collection box of the banquet, and the newlyweds immediately read out the blessing words of these relatives and friends at the wedding banquet. I believe the atmosphere at the scene must be very touching.
2. Put a disposable camera or a popular Polaroid on each table, so that the guests can take photos by themselves and increase the atmosphere. Guests can even take selfies of Polaroid and write words of thanks on the photos.
Let the photographer ask the guests to say a few words of blessing to the camera. You can ask the photographer to edit these precious clips into your wedding video after the wedding.
4. Use a small photo frame, which can not only hold business cards, but also be kept as a souvenir. Once I went to a wedding reception and saw my name in a beautiful silver photo frame. And this photo frame, I can keep it for myself. That kind of excitement is definitely what the guests want.
Put a bottle of soap on each table, so that guests can bless you with blowing bubbles. You can even write your name and his name on the bubble bottle to make this gadget more interesting.
Step 6: Wedding night
One of the four happy events in life, you can do whatever you want, but remember, this is only the completion of your wedding March. How to make the March of pots and pans so perfect depends on sincerity, sincerity, sincerity and true love!