And my own wedding. It's simple.
I think, with the development of society, it is an inevitable trend to simplify the wedding.
First of all, most young people now work in other places, and most of their boyfriends (girlfriends) are from other places.
Unlike the agricultural society in the past, everyone's relatives and friends are in one place, just around the village, and the family is huge. Girls used to get married to let all their relatives and friends know, and later they will integrate into their circle, so they will hold a grand and lively wedding to tell everyone that you are married, and Tianding is imported. Now the young couple are either talking at university or at work, and the province accounts for 70% to 80%. Because of the distance, it is impossible for all relatives and friends of the two families to invite them to the wedding. Generally, they are just simple two-sided wines, or even many simple wines. Just let us know and charge us a penny.
Secondly, young people are busy with work, open-minded and unwilling to follow red tape.
Compared with complicated wedding details, young people are more inclined to invite a few relatives, girlfriends and colleagues to have a simple meal, and then two people will take a honeymoon trip at home and abroad, which is easy and unforgettable. The so-called life is for yourself, not for others. What kind of wedding is the most important ritual debate in a woman's life, mostly because the wedding company brainwashes consumers, just like "a diamond lasts forever, an eternity".
Third, a grand wedding is expensive and uneconomical.
Now everything is economical and cost-effective. A grand wedding is very, very tiring from the beginning to the end. Whether it is the organizer or the couple, it is almost inevitable to laugh until their faces are stiff and their feet hurt, and to toast a bunch of people they don't know, so it is almost inevitable to entertain themselves and please others. Why bother? Besides, the average person can't afford such a big expense. After saving money for several years, you spend it all in one day for a so-called unforgettable ceremony? Isn't it good to keep this money for small family start-up funds?
So no matter from which aspect, the wedding should be simple, except for local tyrants.