There are many superstitions among the people in China. Although there is no scientific explanation as the basis, they have been passed down through the ages. Therefore, most people have always adhered to the attitude of "believing in it" and tried not to violate things that would bring bad omen. So for the newlyweds who are about to get married, they must be very curious about the superstition of candles when they get married. The following is a summary of this problem.
First, the implication of lighting candles when getting married: From ancient times to the present, it has been emphasized that lighting candles when getting married has the implication of lasting fragrance, and China people also pay attention to the need for successors in this life. "Being childless" is the biggest "unfilial". Because of this, the candle at the time of marriage has become an essential link.
Second, the taboo after the candle is lit:
1. Once the candle is lit, don't blow it out actively. Let the candle burn itself out, otherwise it will bring bad omen;
No one, including the bride and groom, can touch the candles lit in the wedding room, otherwise it will be "unlucky" and a bad omen.
Third, the number of candles: candles are so important when you get married, so it is also important to light a few candles when you get married. Under normal circumstances, two candles are lit in the new house, but in some places four or six candles are lit, and so on. In short, even candles are unlucky.
Fourth, the color of the candle: marriage is a happy event, and white candles must not be used. White candles are only used at funerals, so if you use them when you get married, it will have a bad omen. You should use big red candles with auspicious patterns of dragons and phoenixes.
5. Who will light the candles? Under normal circumstances, the candles in the wedding room are all lit by the parents of the newlyweds, which means that they will be blessed by their elders. I wish the newlyweds a long love and a long incense.
The above is a superstitious saying of lighting candles for marriage, which is a summary for everyone and a reference for newcomers who plan to get married. Believe it or not, how credible it is, just have a steelyard in your heart!