I suggest you break up. This is the clearest decision. At present, it is very obvious that his mind is immature and not strong enough to protect you and not consider for you. Getting married is easy, just an armchair strategist. The problem now is that he doesn't agree with you, which is very difficult. What's more, now you give him an analysis and he doesn't understand what's going on, which is very difficult to talk about. There will be many things after marriage, so I suggest you find another one. Of course, you can also have illusions about him. Maybe one day he will have a successful career or something. But have you thought about yourself? What should I do if I have children after marriage? Think about how your parents treat you when you grow up, and you will know that you will take the road of being a parent. . . Imagine yourself!