Obviously, she Man Zhen failed in the project of being reborn and getting married for the second time in her life, and he brought him luck.
When she first married her husband, she also wanted to run this family well, but when she saw that there were a group of people in this family with her husband Shia every day.
When he won the store, he finally gave up.
After her husband's death, she thought about it in Man Zhen and thought it didn't seem so bad. After all, it means that she no longer has to wait on others.
So he resolutely sold his property to pay off his debts and took his children to the county seat.
Xiao Dingling started a new life under the leadership of her widow mother.
She Man Zhen has always been a woman who doesn't care about other people's eyes. At that time, she was concerned that women had no talent, and she was also concerned that it was difficult for women to publicize, but she could give up full marks, but she didn't take them seriously at all.
He not only dresses himself up beautifully every day, but also meets people everywhere. He even took Ding Ling and her brother to school. It is natural for him to come to school to study, but it is hard to say.
But he not only sent his children to school, but also signed up to learn knowledge himself.
In this way, in the surprised eyes of the world, at the age of 30, she went to school in a normal class, while at the age of 7, Ding Ling and her brother went to school in an innocent class. They are still in the same school.
A hundred years ago, this practice of She was undoubtedly shocking. Even today, he needs considerable courage.
As long as she Man Zhen is alive, as long as she doesn't break the law, it doesn't matter that much.
You see there are so many people in the world with twice as many eyes as people. Can you manage it?
If you can't control it, keep being yourself.
This is the motto of her life in Man Zhen.
After her, Man Zhen went to school with Ding Ling and had long-term contacts with Ding Ling's cousin.
It is hard to say that Man Zhen has changed from a student to a supervisor. You see, she came here on foot and started her own business before she knew it.
At this time, those who pointed at She Manzhen's back and scolded him for seeing how shameful he was, and those who followed their children to school at an age were no longer silent.
The strong are often like this. They can use time to silence all his critics and even let them punch themselves in the face.
I have witnessed Ding Ling's strong and maverick mother since I was a child. How could I not hear it?
Ding Ling was desperate when her father died. He thought his life was coming to an end, but her mother dragged him out of the mud until dawn.
Mother is like an elegance reborn from the fire.
Drag yourself out of the mire, from a parasite of a rich family to a new woman in a new era.
I also opened a path to the light for my daughter.
192 1 year, seventeen-year-old Ding Ling proposed to go to Shanghai to study, and his uncle almost jumped up after listening.
His third uncle said: No, you will get married at the age of eighteen next year.
My uncle's marriage was arranged by Ding Ling and my cousin.
Ding Ling is going to school at this juncture, and no matter which elder will agree.
However, his mother, Man Zhen, disapprovingly comforted others and said, well, he will find a light and a way. We can trust him completely, my own daughter, and I trust him. Wherever he goes, I feel at ease.
She Man Zhen wants her daughter to fly high into the sky, although she has no husband and son at this time, only this daughter is left.
So at the age of seventeen, Ding Ling packed her bags and set foot on her own road.
Shortly after this, Ding Ling, who was studying in Shanghai, said another word to her mother, giving her a difficult problem. He said, mom, I want to cancel my engagement with my cousin.
At Ding Ling's voice, the elders jumped up again. They said that if they violated the organization, they would be struck by lightning.
Man Zhen didn't even think about it, so she directly helped her daughter get married.
During her studies, Ding Ling's road was not smooth. She fell in love with her teacher Qu Qiubai, but the teacher liked his good friend Wang Jianhong.
After learning the truth, Ding Ling didn't get angry. She even helped organize them.
But before long, Wang Jianhong died of tuberculosis, and Qu Qiubai instantly married a talented woman, which made Ding Ling extremely depressed.
Qu Qiubai was not devoted to his friends and was depressed.
Ding Ling's other depressed Zida Ri included Wu Jinchang academically, and her attempt to associate with Lu Xun was frustrated.
But gold never worries about not having time to shine.
1928, Ding Ling completed her masterpiece Diary of Ms. Zafi, which caused a sensation in the whole literary world.
At this point, Ding Ling occupied a place in the literary world.
It was also during the creative period that Ding Ling completed her first marriage and she married editor Hu Yeping.
Because she likes Hu Yiping and Feng Xuefeng, a literary genius, Ding Ling lived with them for a long time until Feng Xuefeng left.
It is this past that makes Ding Ling's life doomed to be criticized forever, but these are not life and death events that Ding Ling cares about. Only women who live their own lives like Ding Ling will care.
193 1 In February, Hu Yeping was arrested and shot for political reasons, which made Ding Ling, who had been trying to rescue her husband, heartbroken.
You know, at this time, he has just given birth to a child, and the most difficult time is still that his mother, Sherman Zhen, has propped up a day for Ding Ling.
He held the child in his daughter's hand and said.
Right? Go do your thing.
Ding Ling didn't tell her mother that her husband died and she became a widow like him.
She lied that Hu Yeping had gone to the Soviet Union.
Later, Ding Ling met her second husband, Feng Da, and gave birth to a daughter with Feng Da in 1934.
But at this time, she was arrested for being tipped off by her husband.
Ding Ling has been detained for three years.
In this hopeless day, it is still the mother who supports Ding Ling to persist in living.
After she was imprisoned, she was entrusted by the national government to see Ding Ling and told Ding Ling that her mother was going to court everywhere to save her.
Xu Changke said this obviously not to tell Ding Ling that she has a good mother, but to let Ding Ling show in the newspaper that she is safe and let her.
Mom, don't make a fuss.
Ding Ling naturally disagreed with such a request.
Xu went on to say: it is ok not to publish it in the newspaper. You can write to your mother and tell her that she is safe. If she needs money, I can send it to her for you.
Ding Ling hesitated and replied: My mother has money, so I don't need to send it.
It was at the insistence of her mother and the appeal of her friends Shen Congwen and others that the National Government finally released her three years later.
After all, it's not a good strategy to keep going to prison because Ding Ling is famous.
After regaining her freedom, Ding Ling said to her mother, Mom, I want to go to Yan 'an.
She Man Zhen looked at her daughter and nodded in agreement.
With the support of her mother, Ding Ling arrived in Yan 'an.
Soon I began to take a pen and continue to write.
Here, Ding Ling also met the love of her life, Chen Ming, a big boy 13 years younger than her. Under the influence and support of her mother, Ding Ling boldly pursued love and finally gave up the world and married him.
Except for love and so on, Ding Ling's life resembles her mother in many ways. In a sense, she makes herself look like her mother.
She is optimistic, strong and even a little stubborn, which is reflected in Ding Ling.
However, in the autumn of 1955, after finishing the novel The Sun Shines on the Sanggan River for seven years, Ding Ling, who went to Beijing for a meeting, was completely criticized by the Writers Association, which was a complete denial.
It also faces criticism.
Ding Ling's good friend Shen Congwen's later practice was completely different from Ding Ling's. After being criticized, Shen Congwen was extremely depressed and even tried to commit suicide. Because of that criticism, he finally closed his pen.
Ding Ling thought that she was criticized for her pen, so she had to stand up with a pen.
This is his mother, Man Zhen. Tell him to get up from where he fell.
There is still a step from falling to getting up, which is called enduring pain.
People will always be trampled on a few feet after falling, even broken, even after falling at a young age.
Bold behavior of approaching the past after falling, such as emotional openness and meanness.
The love of her teenage husband, and so on. , also became a means of his being hit.
1958, Ding Ling was sent to the Great Northern Wilderness to make a fresh start.
At this time, Ding Ling had nothing, and her former fame became a drag on him.
However, Ding Ling, a strong woman, said to herself in despair that she was not starting from zero, but from below zero and negative numbers.
But fortunately, there are people who have been separated from him for too long at this time.
Later, Ding Ling was put in the bullpen, but she was never afraid. His mind has been standing. He said: so many people want to see me collapse, so as to erase me from the literary world, I won't. I will stand up again. It is not so easy to survive in a difficult environment.
In order not to be depressed, Ding Ling always tries to have some fun.
When resting in the cowshed, Ding Ling always sat and watched people dancing outside, and was later sent to raise chickens. At the same time, when she was with Cai He Chicken, she said to herself loudly: My mother said that since she can't leave that cold place, she should simply join.
She is determined to end her pain.
From then on, Ding Ling got up early every day and came to the yard. She cleans chicken coops and chicken droppings on the ground. At the same time, she struggled with the chickens that came at her and pecked her.
It is always like spring. You are strong, it is weak.
Soon, Ding Ling who chose to face the reality bravely became a chicken in the Great Northern Wilderness.
Cockfighting.
When she was farming, Ding Ling overcame one difficulty after another. When she was shivering with cold in her hospital bed, she said that I thought a happy Christmas was coming.
Ding Ling's ability to survive in adversity was taught to her by her mother when she was young.
His mother's success also inspired him invisibly and made him believe that he could break through everything.
After recovering from illness, Ding Ning began to exercise and continued to get along with chickens. Finally, he really tamed the chicken he was most afraid of.
At that moment, Ding Ling felt as powerful as a king.
After the disaster 1979, Ding Ling was a 75-year-old woman.
In old age, ordinary people will choose to spend their old age comfortably.
But Ding Ling's choice is just the opposite. He said that he would pick up his pen again and put all the thoughts and thoughts of the past years into words.
In her later years, Ding Ling not only founded the large-scale publication China, but also completed the creation of works such as Wandu, Wang Xiang, Two Worlds and Snowman, which were all completed by Ding Ling during her illness.
Judging from Ding Ling's age and illness at that time, the appearance of these works is like a miracle reappearance. Whether Ding Ling can become such Ding Ling is still related to her mother's influence on her.
Ding Ling's mother, She, insisted on writing a memoir spanning 60 years and dozens of poems in her later years.
Although these works are not well known to the public, their existence guides her daughter's progress like a lighthouse.
Later, Ding Ling once said that when she was ill, it was the works left by her mother that supported her through the hardships.
Ding Ling, who later became a hot female writer, wrote a book about her mother and herself.
Until today, the image of a strong, optimistic and independent mother in this book is still a woman of the world and an example to learn.
The classic saying that man is the master of his own destiny has also become the aphorism of modern people.
It can be said that Ding Ling and her mother's life perfectly explained a sentence.
What sentence?
Is an unyielding heart that can devour all the darkness in the world.