I'm also from Longyou ~ My family is average ~ But when I got engaged, I gave it to 80,000 to 30,000, saying it was for my banquet ~ I also bought a house of 120 square meters ~ When my sister got married in 2007, the bride price was 30,000 ~ I didn't want to show off anything ~ I just wanted to say ~ Now the engagement is at least 50,000 ~ Besides, what can 8,000 do? It's not enough to just buy a banquet ~ And having children is more expensive ~ Life after marriage is not more expensive than when you are in love ~ You have no money ~ You don't know how to live at all ~ Life is tight ~ There is a greater chance of quarreling ~ Just communicate with your husband ~ Eat better for your children ~ Live better ~ Let him pay more at home ~