Marriage is the happiest moment in everyone's life. Being with the person you love for a long time is an enviable thing, and it is also a very distressing thing. Nowadays, many people are under great pressure, especially young people, who are faced with the dual pressures of work and life, with low wages but high living costs. With the growth of age, many people choose not to get married. The bride price in marriage has always been a topic that people like to discuss. Some people spit out the high bride price, and some people spit out that the south is unwilling to give it. When I got married, I agreed to give the woman a hundred thousand bride price, which was later reduced to ten thousand. Some people say that this is a custom, which I find incomprehensible. It must be because there was not enough communication and discussion between the two sides before, so I think we must discuss all the expenses during the wedding before we get married. Both sides must be honest, don't ask exorbitant prices for face, and must negotiate to solve the problem in time, don't delay, don't quarrel.

First, we must discuss the expenses during the wedding before getting married. Wedding is a very important event in everyone's life. From acquaintance to love and then to marriage, two people must have gone through an extraordinary time, and marriage must be the happiest time in life. Two people spend a lot of money to get married, besides buying a house and a car, there are also bride price, dowry, wedding photos and so on. How much bride price and dowry should they pay? Before the wedding, the two sides must reach an agreement through consultation. In some places, there are other expenses at the wedding, such as the woman asking for money to get off the wedding car and enter the man's house. In many cases, these expenses were not discussed by both parties before the wedding, but the woman asked for them temporarily and the man was not prepared. Faced with this situation, the man will feel very embarrassed. Although there is not much money, since the two sides decided to get married together, this little money should not affect their relationship. Many people also canceled the wedding because the woman temporarily changed her mind and asked for money, so we must discuss the expenses during the wedding before getting married to avoid unexpected situations.

Second, both sides should be honest, and don't make exorbitant demands for face. In many places, the bride price is very high, but in fact, there is a problem that China people love to keep up with the joneses, which has been the case since ancient times. The bride price is the embodiment of comparison, because the economic level in many places is not high, but the bride price is outrageous. For example, in Jiangxi, the bride price is as high as 200,000, but the level of economic development in Jiangxi is not high. Therefore, before getting married, both parties must be frank, know each other's customs, and discuss the bride price.

Third, problems must be solved through consultation in time. Don't delay, don't quarrel. Everyone must be in a very happy mood when they get married. When you encounter problems, you must communicate in time, and you can't choose not to deal with them or quarrel. This will not be good for both sides' feelings. Bride price is a tradition in China since ancient times. We don't need to break it, but we must keep pace with the times and solve it through communication.