It's normal to give and receive gifts when you get married. After all, if you give someone a wedding gift, others will give you a corresponding gift. So at this time, wedding gifts are usually held by newlyweds, because they are the parties to the wedding, and these people give gifts because newlyweds get married to express their blessings. So this part of the gift money is actually held by the newlyweds as their future wedding fund, such as buying a house or something. This is also the support of parents for the couple. After all, after a couple gets married, it is equivalent to two people forming a separate family. After a family is formed, it will definitely cost a lot of money and gifts, which is one of them. In addition, the wedding also needs money. Most of these gifts will be used to subsidize the cost of the wedding banquet.
Secondly, I think this matter is not absolute. If most wedding banquets are paid by both parents, then the final gift money can be collected by parents or used to subsidize the expenses of wedding banquets, because we know that now that the children are married, it is our parents who pay the most. Our parents hope that we can get married and marry each other. After all, parents still have to look at their faces. There will be so many relatives and friends at the wedding that we can't be careless at the wedding. Therefore, many young people do not have certain economic strength when they get married, and even their jobs are unstable. But getting married requires a lot of money, such as taking wedding photos with a dowry and inviting people to dinner. These all need money, so as parents, we should arrange and pay. Since most of the couple's expenses are supported by their parents, I think Li Jing should be raised by their parents. After all, her parents gave so much money, these gifts can also be used as some subsidies.
Moreover, I think this issue should be discussed by the family and a couple in advance. We all know that many people in the world turn against each other because of money, such as money, friendship, affection and love. Then things involving interests must be made clear, such as who took this gift, whether it was taken by parents or newcomers, or which guests gave it.