Hello, in western religions, weddings and funerals are equally important, in no particular order. According to the Bible, the Bible compares these two life events: 1. Marriage should be respected by all. It's better to go to a funeral home than a banquet, because death is the end of everything, and the living will take it to heart. In fact, Western Christianity not only teaches people to be kind to this life and respect the sanctity of marriage, but also teaches people to think that the eternal destination of the soul (funeral is the end of life, but it is the eternal beginning) is to make wise choices. I suggest that you can look at the Bible or western folk customs to get a better understanding.