The meaning of this sentence is that men should be ambitious, shake their heads and say that they can't do this or that, that is, they dare not do anything. They are afraid of wolves before and tigers behind, and always think they are incompetent or have no conditions. As a result, they could do nothing. In rural areas, such men will be considered unproductive and looked down upon. In rural areas, it is often men who are in charge. Since he is the backbone of the family, people want this man to be a man who can make up his mind. Therefore, the elderly in rural areas are most afraid that men will only shake their heads when they meet anything. Shaking your head here is not refusing, but not knowing, which is the same as asking questions. Men should have their own opinions and opinions, not just say "yes" or "no". But I can't afford to think about it. At least as a woman, I hope that my other half can listen to what others say and their own reasonable opinions while being independent and daring to express their opinions outside, and respect the opinions of family members at home, instead of being self-centered.

As a man, you should dare to do, think, innovate and be the first in the world. If there is no road, we must break a path. When encountering difficulties, don't shake your head and shrink back, but use your head and try to solve the problem. Only in this way can a person make a difference, become the reliance of his family, make his family prosperous, become the leader of the local people and be a good person.

Being a woman should be gentle, virtuous and well-managed, and not arrogant and self-righteous. Internal determines external, personality determines fate, and women have good conduct. It will inevitably make your behavior look dignified and decent, and it will also make your words and deeds feel good. A woman who strides forward is bound to be irritable and provocative, and her manners are careless, which is beneath the image of a decent woman. She doesn't behave like a woman, which is not conducive to maintaining the family and raising children. She may also compete with her husband in life and not know how to be modest. Such a woman is not conducive to family unity, and it is easy to bring conflicts and contradictions to the family.

"Men are afraid to shake their heads three times and women are afraid to stride" has different requirements for men and women. Although it was said in the past agricultural society, it also has its reference significance in modern society. Objectively, it shows that both men and women should shoulder their own responsibilities. Men should put an end to the image of a horse-haired man, be masculine, and be brave in pioneering their careers. Women should not blindly compete in front of their own men at home, but also care about and respect their own men, such a family.