In the traditional customs of China, there is a saying of "three dynasties returning to the door", that is, three days, six days, seven days, eight days and nine days after marriage. Now it is usually the third day after marriage to visit. The man had better buy clothes for the woman, which shows that he attaches importance to the bride. You can wear a small dress in festive colors when you return home. If it is a small family dinner, choose a small dress that you can wear every day. If you want to have a bigger party, dress up.
Be sure to bring gifts when giving gifts at home. You can't go home empty-handed You usually send more cigarettes and wine. If the bride and groom are not from the same area, you can bring some practical gifts, such as specialties, supplements and massagers. Gifts should be in pairs.
The most important thing about the thank-you banquet is gratitude. You'd better make a draft in advance to avoid forgetting the words then. Returning to the banquet focuses on joy and reunion, which should be reflected.
Back door taboo!
1. You can't wear a wedding dress on the day you return to China. The wedding dress can only be worn once.
2. Don't choose black, white and gray for the back door clothing, which is not festive.
It is best not to spend the night.
4. Go home. The bride and groom had better go back together.
After the husband and wife leave, they should bring some home gifts. Otherwise, you will call your family "poor".
6. The bride doesn't brush the pot, it will brush away the wealth of her family.