Few people know that I have the ability to answer in seconds.

Such as "choose a bed in a big city or a room in a small city?" I can answer such a question well in a short time. For example, on Tanabata, I chatted with a group of single girls in the group when I was in a bad state. They asked me:

Q:

Uncle, what do you think is a person's most important ability?

A:

Love, really know how to love a person, rather than using the name of love to occupy harm or limit TA. We have learned so many abilities, but in the final analysis, we just have the courage to stand in front of you and say: I finally know how to love you.

Tanabata is cruel to dogs to answer this question, and then they ask:

Q:

When getting along with others, should we make it difficult for ourselves to identify with others, or should we maintain our due principles? Some of my own ideas are wild and absurd in the eyes of others, so I ask myself to follow each other's ideas. How can I break them?

A:

I didn't understand Jonathan Lee when I was young. Now if you can understand this lyric, you can understand the answer to your question-if a woman always waits until late at night and gives her youth without regrets, then she is sincere to you. We should judge according to the law of things, not your or his principles, so as not to make the mistakes of some women who wait until late at night.

Ah, women are emotional species. If she has a problem, sing to her. Why do women always wait until late at night? Sure enough, there is a good question again:

Q:?

Uncle, I'm from the International Exchange Department of a university, but I studied China Education. Our side is more oriented to Southeast Asia. Learning Southeast Asian languages is very convenient and more developed, but I just don't like it very much and I can't convince myself to learn it. I prefer learning English (there are many English majors in the department) and Japanese (we hardly use it here). Can you nudge or whip me? A:

I am a person who loves money, so my hobby is not as good as loving money. Which language is more convenient for you to make money?

Later, I finally learned how to love. Unfortunately, the money has long since disappeared into the sea of people. I wish I had understood this truth earlier when I was young.

As soon as this question was answered, the girls exploded and said, Uncle, can I send your share to a circle of friends? I said, help yourself.

Q: Uncle, do you have anything that is particularly reliable and can be used immediately, preferably a free course to treat procrastination?

A: Yes, but you must delay your study.

So they quietly spent money to buy the "golden network" class, and they are all single.

2

No one can succeed casually.

In just a few tens of seconds, answering these questions is indeed the ability to make ordinary people feel magical, but I know very well that these can be trained.

Tell a story. In 20 13/month, I started a WeChat WeChat official account called "Autumn Night Qingyu", which means that Uncle Akiba answered questions for young friends late at night.

Then this number was very popular for a while. In less than a year, it has reached 65,438+million fans, and college students ask more than 300 questions every night.

I promised to reply one by one, so even if I don't sleep every night, I will reply to all kinds of questions of college students. Sometimes I can't go to bed until 2 o'clock in the morning, and I, the one who has to get up at 6: 30 every morning to go to work.

So I must cultivate the ability to answer questions in a short time. If someone asks, why don't I have this ability? In fact, the answer is often that you have not encountered an environment to cultivate this ability.

However, I soon found that people don't like you just by answering irrelevant questions. You have to have your own personality, so the challenge immediately becomes-how to reply to the personalized question in a short time?

This is very difficult, but if you have such a requirement for yourself, it can still be solved. After all, many people feel that they are a player in a circle of friends.

What kind of quality requirements do you have for yourself, and what kind of results will often be produced.

I have to admit that some of the teachers who cooperated later answered the questions a little bland or too simple for various reasons, which made some questioners feel dissatisfied, but they worked hard and had no effect.

From dozens of questions to hundreds of questions a day, I am exhausted, but I also find a bigger challenge-how to answer repeated questions in a short time?

When college students fall in love, they will ask several questions:

1 Should a freshman fall in love?

2 how to confess?

Confess, but what if it is rejected?

We broke up, but he made love to others. How can I break it?

She said she would never break up. When she graduated, she cried that her mother wanted her to go back to her hometown?

When I answered this question for the first time, I felt that I had a lot of experience to say. When you answered for the second time, you felt that you still had something to say. If you answer for the tenth time, you will hate to think, why can't these people ask some new questions?

But like the first question, I replied at least 1000 times, made a FAQ database, copied and pasted it? The advantage of doing this is fast, but the disadvantage is that once a job becomes repetitive, you will lose your passion, so you are not willing to stick to it at all.

Now the question becomes, how to mobilize your state and answer a question repeatedly? The answer is to force yourself to answer differently every time.

Sometimes people's growth does not come from other people's requirements, but from your own requirements.

In this way, I answered the questions of 654.38 million college students, really, not exaggerating, only a lot more. I admit that I also perfunctory a lot of answers, but at least half of the questions I have seriously thought about, and I will think of the answers soon.

In fact, I didn't know what was the use of doing these things at that time. I just think good deeds should be rewarded, right?

three

Most people's pain comes from not being able to make choices and being afraid of making choices.

For example, many people ask, "Choose a bed in a big city or a room in a small city?" In fact, I want to answer, very simple-is it more terrible to live with nothing after struggle, or is it more terrible to live in a tourist trap without beginning?