1, to assist newcomers to deal with temporary or unexpected situations;

2. Give the bride a flower gate;

3. Contact the staff when picking up the bride and the float parade, so that they can know the situation and location of the new couple for arrangement;

4. Serve the tray and stop drinking when toasting.

Candidates: unmarried young men, not too tall, preferably good friends and Dionysus.

Reason: He'd better drink a lot and work hard, because it's hard for the best man to hold the bottle at the wedding.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen can be said to be important figures in a wedding working group. Usually, the couple will invite a female companion as a bridesmaid, and some people will invite 6~ 12 girlfriends or sisters, one of whom is a bridesmaid, and some people call it a "companion" or a "bridesmaid". When there is only one bridesmaid, some grooms will invite 2-6 friends to follow the motorcade to marry the bride, so as to make the bride's family beautiful. Everyone is called "the best man", except one main best man. Usually, the number of groomsmen should be matched with that of bridesmaids.

As the name implies, the best man and bridesmaid are the companions and representatives of the new couple. Except for the wedding ceremony and the wedding ceremony, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following two tasks:

Mission 1: personal butler

1, stay close to the couple and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.

4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement.

5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the tension of the couple.

Mission 2: Newcomer Representative

1, Wedding: Bridesmaids should try their best to groom and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women.

2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.

3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.

4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow them.

5. During the ceremony: bid farewell to the witness, respect the parents and elders, and bid farewell to both parents.

6, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate. Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention.

Memo of bridesmaids and groomsmen

1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.

2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony.

3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her.

4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.

Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen's dresses

The best man wears a relatively formal suit or dress as his coat. If many groomsmen wear formal clothes (such as Chinese tops), it will have a special dramatic effect. The bridesmaid had better wear a little dress, which is both beautiful and sets off the bride. Of course, they must move easily and don't let clothes distract them. After all, their main job is to look after the bride.

In addition, it should be noted that the dress of bridesmaids and groomsmen should be consistent with the main color of the wedding.

"bridesmaid, best man"

In fact, bridesmaids don't have to be women, and groomsmen don't have to be men. The so-called "bridesmaid" actually refers to the person who accompanies the bride, while the "best man" is the person who accompanies the groom. If the bride's best friend is a man, don't let the word "Niang" as a bridesmaid list him as an unqualified candidate. Similarly, the groom sometimes invites his female friends or sisters to accompany him at the wedding. In fact, many couples have members of the opposite sex in their partner teams. In this case, the best man of the bridesmaid still has to undertake most of the work of the bridesmaid, but is usually called "attendant" or "maid of honor" politely; On the other hand, women on the groom's side, although still called "the groom's companion" most of the time, should be "the best man" in terms of tasks.

Definition of bridesmaid:

I will always be with the bride on the wedding day as a sweet little messenger of the bride. Everything about the bride needs to be worried and mastered. Bridesmaids come early and leave late from morning till night. During the day, bridesmaids still occupy an important position.

The workload of bridesmaids in a day seems simple, but it is still very complicated. Not to accompany, but more importantly, to help the bride solve problems when encountering problems. After all, no one knows what will happen, so people with certain randomness are needed as auxiliary roles.

The bridesmaid's is like another spokesperson for the bride, so it is very important, during the day.

Bridesmaid's choice:

1, a close friend, understands because of familiarity.

Close friendship is destined to be mutual tacit understanding and trust. It is because of this relationship that we can feel what the other person wants or wants to say in communication or perception. It's easier to get close to your heart. It's easier to touch each other's hearts.

Chocolate feels that because he is a close friend of the boudoir, he has more tacit understanding and trust, and he still wants it one day. Help to handle all kinds of things better.

2, relatives, because of blood, so close

The relationship between relatives will always be so deep, and they will always be the closest people. This cannot be changed. So it will still be the first choice for many people to choose bridesmaids. Because I believe it, I feel more reliable. When I encounter problems, I can also express my thoughts directly, without worrying about the other person's thoughts.

Chocolate thinks relatives will be a good candidate, but sometimes, suitability is a major issue. The age difference should not be too big, otherwise there will definitely be a difference.

3. Colleagues, because they are together every day, they have more contacts.

Colleagues spend the longest time together. Every day together, everyone's temper, hobbies and habits will have the most intuitive understanding. This is not only good for work, but also good for the flexibility of the day. For the bride, it will be easier.

Chocolate thinks that when choosing between colleagues, sometimes you will be unhappy because you choose this person instead of that one. The reason why I am unhappy is that I have not chosen myself.

4. Friends of friends are more curious because they don't understand.

If there is no suitable candidate around, friends recommended by friends will naturally be a good choice. Trust your friend, you must trust his friend. This is a continuous and interrelated problem. As for the pros and cons, it depends on personal feelings. After all, everyone feels differently.

Chocolate thinks that it doesn't matter who you choose, but you must like it. What you like will be the best. So you still need to measure it yourself.

Bridesmaid's request for chocolate:

1, with good personality and easy communication.

On the wedding day, there are many people who need to come and many things to meet. For example, eating, you need to drink, you need to socialize, and you need to face all kinds of people. Therefore, it is still very important to have a good personality and facilitate communication with others. This is more conducive to the adjustment of the atmosphere.

Chocolate sleep and good personality sometimes make the bride breathe a sigh of relief. In some cases, a good-natured bridesmaid can completely help the bride solve some minor problems. Let the bride relax more and enjoy the wedding more happily.

2, the ability to improvise is relatively strong

Because it is newly married, because there is only one day, because there are more guests, so everyone will encounter different things. Because it is different, everyone's experience is naturally different. Randomness is entirely an individual's level and ability. For everyone, everyone has their own characteristics.

Chocolate believes that it is actually a good thing that one more person can share the burden for himself. Helping yourself and others is also the most prominent feature of bridesmaids.

3. Understand tolerance and understanding.

The characteristics of bridesmaids need tenderness, tolerance and understanding. This is the embodiment of character and a kind of respect for others. In more cases, this feature is still easy to highlight. Intuitive feelings are different.

Chocolate thinks this is still very important for bridesmaids. We need to face the people and things around us with such a mood. To be sure, this is very beneficial to the adjustment of the atmosphere and mood of the day. So it is worth mentioning.

4, temperament and characteristics must match.

The maid of honor's temperament, for the bride, is also a foil, but also the improvement of quality. For a day, for an individual, this is an expression of vision. So it is still very important. It must be worth reminding. A problem that can't be ignored.

Chocolate suggests that you choose a girl with good temperament, which will make you and your guests very happy. It's a good idea, and it's also a good idea.

5. Be sure not to be taller, better or more beautiful than the bride.

This may be a * * * sex, which is a way that everyone can understand. So we must pay attention to a problem. Don't forget, the bride is the protagonist and the bridesmaid is just a foil. How do bridesmaids steal the bride's thunder? Then there is no priority.

You must pay attention to the choice of chocolate feeling, or choose according to your own characteristics. Now people still pay great attention to this, don't let yourself be passive.

6, must be unmarried girls

This is the knowledge that everyone knows. It is also a matter of concern to China people. I think it will be more auspicious, and I think it will be better. So be sure to pay attention to this choice.

The so-called unmarried is the type that neither gets a marriage certificate nor holds a wedding. This is the real unmarried girl, you can only choose such a girl.

Chocolate adheres to this ancient and traditional practice. As China people, we still need to pay attention to this matter. The exquisite is still exquisite.

Chocolate reminder:

1, choose a bridesmaid early.

Everyone has their time, so be sure to inform her in advance. Early is the choice, give her some time to prepare or consider.

Chocolate thinks that everything should be done early and late. This still requires a strong sense of time. The concept of time is universal to everyone.

2. Be careful when choosing bridesmaids.

Be careful, it is still a good reminder for bridesmaids. During the day, sometimes the bride will be busy. At this time, the bridesmaid will play a supplementary and explanatory role, so we must be careful and think of some details to solve problems for the bride.

Chocolate thinks that this little detail must be paid attention to. The details are still very important. Don't ignore it, you must take it seriously. This is responsible for yourself.

3, choose a bridesmaid, be sure to look good.

Kindness is a general term, paying more attention to some ideas of doing things and being a man. For this, for the bride, it needs comprehensive consideration. After all, sometimes there will be money contact, so it is more appropriate to be cautious.

Chocolate will pay attention to this, choose carefully, and speak with eyes and facts. I believe it should be easy to choose such a girl.

4. When choosing a bridesmaid, you must prepare a red envelope.

A red envelope is actually a symbol of a small gift. Not many people care about quantity, it just makes people feel a kind of intimate warmth. What I care about is not how much, but the feeling above.

Chocolate will carefully prepare a red envelope and give it to the bridesmaid, giving her deep gratitude and affectionate expression. I hope she can feel it.