1, lucky draw: After the engagement, the man prepares ten kinds of gifts, such as clothes, gifts, wedding wine, two bottles of cakes, candy, red dates, walnuts, hard-boiled eggs and fresh meat, which are tied with red paper strips and put in a carrying box (called "box") to take to the woman's house.

2. The woman should return part of the dowry: According to our traditional custom, when the man gives the woman the corresponding dowry on the day of engagement, the woman should return part of the dowry. Together with the gifts prepared in advance, put them in a red wooden box and give them to the relatives and friends of the man to take back to the car. The bride price is a big event. For the woman's parents, it is naturally polite and does not cause trouble.

3. Don't say goodbye and don't step on the threshold: After the engagement party, the woman should not say goodbye to the guests when welcoming them. At this time, it should be noted that even between the woman and the man, you can't say goodbye to avoid complications. And for the woman, when engaged, never step on the threshold or kick on the threshold, which will easily have a bad influence on marriage.

4. The items for the man should be carefully prepared: usually before engagement, the woman should prepare corresponding items for the man, mainly including suits, shoes and socks, ties, etc.

The main reason is that when engaged, in order to show his sincerity in marriage, the man often buys three gold or hardware as a gift for the woman to let her know his mind. As a woman, we should buy some gifts for the man as a response, mainly in response to the man's gift money to express our gratitude.

5. Distribute wedding cakes to friends: girlfriends should distribute the engagement wedding cakes to friends and relatives around them as a notice of good engagement news to prepare for future wedding reception notices.