How many things do you need to go through from love to marriage? I believe many people will understand that this process is not easy. It is true that it is not easy for two people to walk all the way to the marriage hall. This is not only the fruit of two people's love, but also represents each other's responsibility to each other.

Marriage is not only the combination of two people, but also the integration of two families. Because of this, marriage is even harder. Because of a marriage, two unfamiliar families have come together, and their living habits and family background need to be adjusted slowly. If this process is not handled properly, it will lead to a series of contradictions, and even lead to the breakdown of marriage.

Compared with the management after marriage, the contact between the two families before marriage is also very important. In our country, before marriage, both families like to meet several times to finalize the details of marriage or talk about each other's conditions. This is a good thing, because we can communicate with each other and avoid disagreement when we get married. But today, this kind of meeting has changed more and more.

Now this kind of meeting is more like a meeting between two families to discuss conditions because of marriage. Both families regard marriage as a transaction, and you come and I bargain. Marriage has become a bit utilitarian, which makes people feel uncomfortable.

Wang Yu recently encountered such a sad thing. Originally, I planned to hold a wedding with my girlfriend in the near future, but because the families of both sides could not talk about the conditions, I had to cancel the wedding. What's more, because it affected the feelings between Wang Yu and his girlfriend, there is no reconciliation now.

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Wang Yu and his girlfriend were high school classmates, and they lost contact after graduating from high school. After graduating from Wang Yu University, she chose to go back to her hometown to develop, and accidentally met that girl again. After careful understanding, Wang Yucai knew that the girl had been staying in her hometown.

As classmates, Wang Yu always asks girls out for dinner on weekdays. After a long period of contact, the two secretly fell in love, thus determining the love relationship.

Two people have been in love for two years, and they feel that they know each other almost, and it is time to get married. Wang Yu proposed to his girlfriend, who was of course very happy and agreed to his proposal.

As soon as Wang Yu was happy, he went home and told his parents about it. Parents are also very happy for him, so they suggested that before the wedding, parents of both sides should meet several times to finalize the wedding.

Wang Yu told her girlfriend what her parents thought and asked her to call her parents and meet them. The girlfriend agreed.

On the day of meeting, Wang Yu and his girlfriend found a nice hotel. Because it was the first time for the two families to meet, everyone seemed a little stiff. And Wang Yu noticed that his girlfriend's brother was here.

During the dinner, the two families gradually became familiar with each other and exchanged more with each other. Both parents are very much in favor of Wang Yu marrying this girl. Everyone agrees that two people should get married.

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Everyone was happy when we met for the first time. Until the end of the meeting, Wang Yu's heart was finally at ease. The woman's parents agreed to get married, and he discussed the wedding details with his parents.

Wang Yuben wanted to get married, and the dust settled. He can finally enter the marriage hall with his girlfriend. But I didn't expect things to go wrong soon.

That day, my girlfriend told Wang Yu that her parents wanted to meet him in the evening to talk about getting married. Wang Yu readily agreed.

That night, Wang Yu also specially bought many gifts for her future parents-in-law. When they met, Wang Yu and his girlfriend exchanged a few pleasantries. At this time, the future mother-in-law talked about the topic.

She first asked Wang Yu how the wedding was going. Wang Yu replied that everything was being prepared step by step.

Mother-in-law praised Wang Yu a few words, and then said to him, "Xiaoyu, your uncle and I both agree that you should marry my daughter. But we are married to our daughter and there are still some conditions at home. "

Wang Yu a listen to these words, feel some truth, after all, is to get married, bride price or something. So he nodded and said to his future mother-in-law, "Aunt, I understand. Just ask me what conditions I have at home, and I will try my best to satisfy you."

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Wang Yu's words made the girl's mother look very satisfied. She nodded and continued: "Xiaoyu, you know my family's situation. Just an ordinary family with two children. Your little brother needs to get married in the future. The burden of uncles and aunts will be very heavy in the future. "

Wang became more and more puzzled. What is the relationship between his marriage and his future brother-in-law's marriage?

At this time, the future mother-in-law said, "Since you want to marry my daughter, we have no problem. But there is only one condition, that is, your family must buy a house for my youngest son. "

Hearing this sentence, Wang Yu couldn't help but stand up. He understood the meaning of her mother-in-law. I originally wanted to buy a house for my brother-in-law and get married. However, it is impossible to buy a wedding room and another house. Besides, I have no obligation to buy a house for my brother-in-law.

He shook his head and said to his family, "It's not my responsibility to buy a house for your son, is it?" I married your daughter, not your son. "

My mother-in-law was also anxious when she heard this sentence. She said categorically, "If you want to marry my daughter, you must buy a house for my son! Otherwise, don't talk. "

Wang Yu was very angry when he heard this: "Then cancel the wedding, I can't afford a house!"

In this way, Wang Yu and his girlfriend broke up in discord. Because of this, Wang Yu had a big fight with his girlfriend. The girl made it clear that if Wang Yu didn't buy a house for her brother, she wouldn't marry.

Now Wang Yu is in a tangle. He really wants to get married, but he doesn't want to buy a house for his brother-in-law, which puts him in a dilemma.

In fact, in my opinion, this kind of marriage doesn't matter. Girls' families obviously prefer boys to girls, and girls also have some behaviors of "helping their brothers". If Wang Yu marries her, life will be even worse in the future. This kind of family is like a bottomless pit, you can't fill it in. The only thing you can do is to stop the loss in time.