What should I say on the wedding wine table? I believe many people have attended the weddings of relatives and friends, and they also know that it is essential to serve wine at the banquet. ? Wine culture? It is also an ancient and fresh topic and an indispensable part of wedding etiquette. Wedding banquet is an important part of wedding etiquette. Let's take a look at how to speak at the banquet in wedding etiquette.
1, enjoy the whole people, don't whisper.
Most banquets have more guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone.
In particular, try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which will often cause jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking.
2, aim at both sides, grasp the overall situation
Most banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and lose a good opportunity to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.
3. Appropriate language and humor
Sprinkling it on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.
4, moderate persuasion, don't force.
On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough.
Talk about heroes with wine? People who drink too much can, but people who drink too little can. Sometimes excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.
5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities.
Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary.
In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to what others call you so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings.
When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.
6. Read words and understand people's hearts.
If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read and read. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table.
7, the edge is gradually exposed, sit firmly on Mount Tai.
At the banquet, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right time and gradually radiate your own edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai and not give others the idea of "this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength.
What the bride should know is that after the wedding, the people attending the wedding can sit down and eat, drink and dance. Even if the food provided by the wedding banquet is only appetizers, plus ice cream and wedding cake, the wedding participants should prepare a bride table for the newlyweds, so that the newlyweds can sit down comfortably and enjoy the food and champagne, and they can exercise their muscles on the dance floor when they are interested.
Even at a less formal wedding reception, couples should have a seat card indicating their exclusive seats. As for other guests, there should be some smaller tables in the wedding banquet hall so that they can have a place to sit down after socializing and dancing.
At the bride's table, the bride and groom should sit next to each other. On the other side of the groom is the maid of honor, on the other side of the bride is the best man, and next to the best man is the little maid of honor. The hostess and the maid of honor arranged the seats in turn according to the alternation of men and women. If there is enough space, you should invite the spouse or boyfriend and girlfriend of the hostess and bridesmaid to sit at this table. However, if there are many people attending the wedding, the spouse or close friend of the hostess and bridesmaid may not be able to sit at the bride's table. In this case, they must be asked to sit at another table.
At a formal lunch or dinner, all the guests are seated. All the guests and people attending the wedding should have their own seat cards and the number of the table where they are sitting.