I'm getting married ... but I don't know the process, and I don't know how much my husband's family will give me. Who can help me?
Now parents are reasonable, unless they are too snobbish, as long as two people really love each other, parents will not sell their daughters. If you really want that much money, you will frighten men to be silly, and good men will shrink back like this. In order not to lose the good man you think, I suggest you communicate with your parents more and give as much as you want. There must be.