Calling a wine seal means that on the wedding day, husband and wife write a love letter to each other and seal the love letter and red wine in a box.
If one day, when you quarrel or even divorce, you open the box together, pour a glass of red wine, go to different corners, drink red wine, read the love letter written by the other party at that time, recall the sweetness of your marriage and the feelings between you, maybe you can calm down with each other.
If life is only the first time, that's probably how it feels.
Maybe you will say that the sense of ceremony is daily, and it can still be realized without the carrier of wedding, but without the wedding, you may never be able to get together with your good friends from childhood and witness your happiness.
You may never have the courage to express your gratitude to your parents, your lover and your friends in your life.
You may never have a chance to really feel the powerful shock that the sense of ceremony brings to your life.
Maybe you think that the wedding is mixed with too many elements that you don't want to see and accept, but when you stand on the stage in full dress, you will feel extremely sacred and solemn inside. Perhaps, our wedding can't cover everything, but please don't deny its existence value before you have a choice.
But the reason why the sense of ceremony is solemn is not only the guidance of sincere belief, but also because it needs to remind us that there are poems and distant places besides life.
Therefore, I especially agree with Huang Lei's words that a person's life is composed of constant nodes and ceremonies to remind us of our own life, remind others of our life, and remind others of our life.