As long as money is involved, it is not particularly easy. Sometimes it is really difficult to borrow money from others when there is no money. I don't know what to say. I feel really ashamed to ask others for money. In fact, on the other hand, it is particularly difficult for others to borrow money without asking others for money. On the one hand, I am afraid that I will ask others to do this on my own initiative, which will embarrass both sides and may also destroy the relationship between the two people. On the other hand, I feel very distressed not to take my hard-earned money. If you want to get your money back without hurting your feelings and let the other party take the initiative to return it to you, you can try the following methods.

1. When you meet that person, tell him your difficulties in front of him and let him know that he needs money recently. If a person still has a little conscience, if someone tells him how poor he is recently and how much he needs money, and he has no money, he will definitely think that he lacks other people's money and will definitely find a way to return it to others. Because I must have borrowed money from others because I had no money, I especially understand the feeling of being in a hurry to have no money. Others helped me when I was in trouble, and now I am in trouble and still short of money, so I must return a few people's money to others anyway. In this way, although I didn't directly ask him to pay back the money, the meaning was actually more clear, so I achieved my goal and didn't freeze the relationship.

2. Euphemistically remind the other party, if not, find a middleman to say. It is possible that the other party didn't pay back the money because he forgot to owe someone else. Some people just forget things easily. If so, you can talk about borrowing money that day in front of him intentionally or unintentionally, which is equivalent to helping him remember, so it is easier to remember. If you haven't given you the money yet, you probably just don't want to pay it back. At this time, you can find a middleman to talk to that person and remind him. If so, you will definitely give you the money.

I think if you borrow money from others, you must take the initiative to give it to them in time. Others are embarrassed to ask you for it, and you can't give it to others. It's not good for people to ask you for money.