Engagement letter: a letter from a man and a woman formally concluding an engagement. When Najib (Guo) is used.

Gift book: Gift book, that is, gift list, lists the types and quantities of gifts in detail. Use it when receiving gifts.

Marriage book: a book for marrying a bride. For picking up the bride on the wedding day.

Nacai: At the first wedding in ancient times, when the woman was interested, she asked the matchmaker as the medium. This is called Nacai, and now it is called Nacai. Propose relatives; .

Seeking a name: when the man asked the woman's name and birthday, he called Bu Zhao Ji to seek a name, and now he calls it; Combine eight characters; .

Najib: If the name is auspicious, send a matchmaker to send a small gift, called Najib, now called; Guo; Or; Xiaoding; .

Levy: Give gifts, cakes, gifts and sacrifices. , that is, formally giving a bride price, this is called a levy, and now it is called; Have a big gift; .

Invitation: the man asked Mr. Fathom to choose a date. This is called invitation, also called asking for an appointment, and now it is called choosing a date.

Kissing: The groom takes a limousine to the bride's house to pick her up. This is called kissing.

2, change Geng spectrum

After the matchmaker proposes marriage, if both men and women have the same personality and do not conflict, they will exchange the genealogies of the two families as preliminary evidence of engagement.

3. Guo

It is played before a big gift, usually one month before the wedding. The man chose an auspicious day, brought three wine gifts to the woman's house, and formally submitted his letter of appointment.

4. Gift

The most solemn engagement ceremony is fifteen to twenty days before marriage. The man chooses a good day and brings gifts and various gifts to the woman's house.

5. A bed

Pick a good day. A few days before the wedding, the lucky guy will move the new bed to the right place. Then before the wedding, a good woman is responsible for making the bed, spreading mattresses, sheets and dragons and phoenixes on the bed, and sprinkling all kinds of happy fruits, such as red dates, longan, dried litchi and red mung beans. After the bed is installed, no one is allowed to enter the new house and touch the new bed before the new couple enters the house on the wedding night.

On the wedding night, the couple can let their children eat happy fruit in bed after entering the new house, which is called; Press; , take the meaning of its descendants.

It is an ancient idea that the groom's brother of the same age can make a new house; Newcomers don't make trouble, the bigger the trouble; And it can ward off evil spirits for both husband and wife and make money after marriage.