We also come from two provinces.
Of course, the customs are different, but the custom of national engagement has been passed down from generation to generation.
I have a lot of etiquette before getting married. First, the engagement is followed by a celebration ceremony, and a small gift (a few days before getting married) is omitted from the big gift.
The engaged man wants to buy three pieces of gold jewelry, half a pig, six cases of wine, six cigarettes, four chickens and two big carp (the woman returns the chicken and fish to the man).
The celebration ceremony is to tell the woman's family that we have set a date. When are we going to marry our daughter-in-law and go home? What else have we forgotten?
Gift half a pig, 24 packets of biscuits, 24 packets of bread, 24 packets of sugar, 4 chickens, 2 fish, 8 cases of wine and 8 cigarettes. The gift money is what you said, 30 thousand Actually, 30,000 is a small sum.
The woman answers appliances, furniture and the like. It's different.
My parents and his parents discussed it like this.
The total gift money is ***5W, because we are in two provinces, and the 20,000 things bought at his house, 30,000, were brought over, but my parents didn't give me any money, even more than 30,000.
Because we are two provinces, I just give the money to my parents. 5600 is estimated to have more than 2 gifts, 5000 is estimated to be 1500 for my parents, and then the next wedding will be OK.
I'm afraid of trouble, too
But you said that the money given by the man is still in their house, which is a bit unreasonable. .
To put it bluntly, these gifts are just like the feeling that Ming Media was getting married.
People nowadays love saving face, especially what you said. Their family is rural, and they think their daughter has married in a big city. Of course, the more they love face, the more they have face. It depends on whether you can afford this face. .
Don't even think about it As ugly as selling a daughter. How do you evaluate people who have gone to college?
Some things can't be earned with money, and some things are not. It's really hard to have them now.