Many people think that the wedding is the most ceremonial thing in the whole marriage journey, and we can't be careless. However, some people think that weddings are too troublesome and do not pay attention to them.
Are you online? Young people? In my eyes, does the wedding really have to be held?
Do you need to do it?
Most people who think that weddings need to be held value the sense of ceremony. But this sense of ceremony is not just for married couples.
More parents need this sense of ceremony to tell each other's parents that their children have grown up. Our parents need this wedding more than we do.
Every year is like a birthday. Is it necessary to celebrate? Is it necessary for the whole family to be together during the Mid-Autumn Festival? For people, it is important to be inseparable from the sense of ceremony.
At first, some people thought that weddings were unnecessary. But later I learned that the wedding was really necessary. A woman holds a wedding and hopes that her day is the most beautiful.
But men need this wedding more than women. If they don't do this, they won't feel married. Weddings can make men grow up faster.
And this kind of thing, the sense of ritual, is not imaginary. Maybe at first, I thought the wedding was boring, but at that moment, I really felt that feeling.
For married people, marriage is more about daily necessities. Without the passion of love, life will return to dullness, and the moment of marriage will be the most unforgettable moment.
Especially in many places now, only when you have a wedding will others recognize your relationship. I don't know just getting a marriage certificate.
Of course, some people don't really want to have a wedding. But when I think of the money I spent in my early years, I still have to hold a wedding, otherwise how can I get it back?
There's no need to do this.
Most people who think there is no need to hold a wedding are still worried about trouble. A complete Chinese wedding process, the bride and groom will be very tired after the whole day.
Especially now, most weddings like to be beautiful and lively, and a large part of the invited guests are unrelated distant relatives.
They hate the feeling of being on the stage, and every table should be toasted. Although there are many people coming, not many people really wish them well.
Recently, a childhood playmate got married and I became her maid of honor. I have to say, I'm really tired after a whole day. From morning till night, I am taking photos and videos.
We even joked that this was probably the day when she took the most photos in her life. I stayed with her all day and felt that the wedding was really too much trouble. When I get married, I really want to get a certificate and it's over.
However, as a friend for more than ten years, it was very touching to watch her get married and hold a wedding. Watching her wedding with blessings.
Getting married is really a very important thing. For two people, it is a lifetime thing. As long as both parties are willing to hold a grand wedding or a simple wedding.
If you want, you can get married naked or travel. You just need to really love each other. After all, the wedding is only one day, just follow your own heart.
Because of married life, whether two people live happily or not is more important than anything else.