Generally, cash is given directly, and a pile of money not only looks good, but also gives the woman's parents face. However, giving cash is suitable for those with less bride price, and the most common is below 65438+ 10,000. Too much cash will definitely not work. You need to deposit it in a card and then give the woman a bank card, which is more ceremonial.

If the bride price is large, the other party still insists on cash, or part of the cash and part of the bank card, which looks very safe. The transfer of bride price money is rare, because there is a handling fee, and the damaged expenses need to be made up by themselves, which is not very cost-effective.

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Pay attention to the bride price;

1, elders send bride price

If parents are inconvenient, the person who sends the bride price should also be a respected person in the village. Generally, people of the same age will not be chosen to send bride price, such as cousins, cousins and other relatives. The other party is the parents who receive the bride price, so the seniority is not equal. Unless it's an appointment, find an older one.

2, the bride price is not necessarily engaged.

Because both parents are present and there are relatives of the woman, giving a bride price can make the woman look more "arranged". However, the betrothal gift cannot be given on the day of engagement for various reasons, and the betrothal gift can also be given on the auspicious day. Usually no bride price is given before marriage 1 day, because everyone is busy preparing for marriage.

3, the bride price return problem

Don't rush to ask the bride's parents to return the bride price. Some places will take a part of the bride price on the day of engagement, and then most of them will let the man take it home directly. But most of the time, it is for the daughter, and the daughter will take back her husband's family as the savings of the young couple.