Take the wedding vows for example, shouting "I love you" in front of thousands of people! In fact, it is better to silently protect you and take care of you behind their backs!
On the contrary, at the wedding, what's the use of a megaphone that amplifies the volume several times, with a little embarrassment and a little performance, to say a lifetime commitment?
I don't like weddings I don't like what should belong to the two of us, and it has become a big fanfare, turning the promise that should be slowly implemented in practice into a pale oath.
If there is love, it doesn't matter whether there is a wedding or not, as long as the security I can get from you won't be lost, I don't think I need that wedding.