First, the man went to the woman's house for an official visit. As the saying goes, the house is called the door. Of course, you can't forget to bring a gift! If you know more about the woman's family, this time it's just a formality, then the accompanying family or matchmaker will discuss the next important visit with the woman's family (the woman will bring her family or eight aunts, seven aunts, etc.). , generally limited to women), and choose a good day to visit the man's house and make an engagement.

Housekeeping and engagement can be done in one go, or they can be separated, depending on the popularity of both men and women, hehe! The engagement is very formal, so the man should make full preparations and prepare the whole table in advance to show his attention. On the day when the woman comes, in addition to the whole table, she should also prepare engagement tokens, bride price and some daily toiletries, such as towels, toothpaste and facial cleanser. It is best to make two copies, so that the woman can share it with others when she takes it back. She must say something nice when using them, and her words will affirm the generosity and concern of this man! There are souvenirs, such as gold and silver jewelry. The above items and bride price are given to the woman's representative by the matchmaker or elder after the banquet! Then we have tea and chat, talking about the benefits of marriage between the two families, and talking about what kind of perfect match looks. We can even set a good day and a wedding date at this time.

Such a complete engagement procedure is completed!