Lolita, a fast man, is popular all over the Internet.
Recently, many viewers found that players wearing colorful * * *, long skirts, boots and delicate eye makeup appeared in all major competition areas of Hunan Satellite TV 20 10 "Happy Boys", and their postures were almost enchanting. Among them, the fast man called "Sister Shang" by netizens dressed as "Lolita" and suddenly became an online celebrity. Some netizens said that Hunan Satellite TV chose "Zeng Ge" as a fast girl last year, and this year it chose "Shang Jie" as a "girl", which is really an "imbalance between yin and yang".
Sichuan netizens commented on this: It is said that girls are not like girls and boys are not like boys. First of all, it is the influence of popular culture. Neutral pop culture is rampant in TV programs, and little boys follow suit. Second, generally, little boys develop intellectually and emotionally later than little girls. Girls are set as role models, and boys have long been unrecognized. In order to save trouble, teachers and parents use the word "good" to manage boys, which makes girls feel more superior, leading to a vicious circle. It has become a campus fashion that girls try to be brave and boys show weakness. Third, there is a serious imbalance between male and female teachers in kindergartens and primary schools. There are basically no male teachers in kindergartens, and there are few male teachers in primary schools, and the male identity is low. The sorrow of boys today is the sorrow of the whole society tomorrow.
Boys like plush dolls.
According to the survey of "Feminization of Boys" conducted by our newspaper and Sichuan Online, 98% of the respondents indicated that there was a phenomenon of "Feminization of Boys" around them.
Xiao Luan, a netizen from Sichuan, told reporters that some time ago, her son in the sixth grade had a plush doll in his schoolbag. Her son said that all the boys in the school like to bring this kind of toy, and most of them like to imitate the sissy of Xiao Shenyang. She is very worried about it.
Why are boys feminine? Lu Qin, director of the Center for Mental Health Education of Chengdu University, said, firstly, with the improvement of women's status in China for more than half a century, the male-dominated image gradually disappeared. Secondly, in many one-child families, parents often overprotect boys. In school education, large class teaching makes teachers ask students to be "quiet" and "obedient". The result of paying too much attention to grades can only be to sacrifice exercise time and innovative activities, while receptive learning is suitable for girls' characteristics, but it is seriously in conflict with boys' nature.
In this regard, Sichuan online netizens have a deep understanding. Her son was severely criticized by the teacher when he gestured with his male classmates in the second grade of elementary school. He not only invited the parents, but also asked the children to ensure their control. Otherwise, what would happen? The little boy was too scared to go out, and he lost his courage.
A Sina netizen's view is that it is not the boys who have problems, but the disadvantages of the education system are becoming more and more prominent.