I'm from there, and the exact amount of the gift money needs to be discussed by the two companies. If you want more gifts, you can ask the bride's family to marry him more. If you want less than half, it's okay to marry him. Generally, people give gifts of more than 30 thousand, as well as hardware, which are generally available. The two families had better discuss the details. It's best not to hurt the feelings of two people because of this. If you want to be in-laws, you'd better let it not hurt your feelings.