The fashion of society has been caught up. No matter how many commercial motives are behind buying a car or a house, a high-priced bride price or a luxurious wedding.

It can also be said that people's desires are ignited by others, plus the burning of comparison. Because everyone has face, and of course you have dignity.

Therefore, many people are eager for it.

The faucet has become a successful example of passive influx.

This is the big environment behind the marriage between men and women.

Not everyone knows what level you belong to and what ability you have. School-age men and women prefer to see people around them, people who have something to do, and men and women who are married to others. Therefore, they are satisfied with their own face and dignity and suffer from their own economy and ability.

The so-called difficulty is to do things beyond one's ability. Secretly, these are all competitions that have to be faced.

Therefore, for the vast majority of men of school age, it is very normal that it is difficult to get married, to buy a house, and to be single every day.

How to treat a series of problems in China, such as the difficulty of getting married, the inability to afford a house, and the increasing number of single-sex men? Nowadays, unmarried older men can be seen everywhere in rural areas or cities, whether they buy a house or not. More than 30 million bachelors, involving more than 30 million families. If this problem is not solved, the country's future pension problem will face severe challenges.

In 1970s, in order to control population growth and implement family planning, the first child and the second child had to be separated by 4-5 years. In the 1990s, it advocated the policy that a couple was only allowed to have one child. Due to the influence of tradition, people's idea of "son preference" is more serious. At that time, due to the appearance of hospital B-ultrasound, men and women could be identified artificially, resulting in a serious imbalance.

Now I want to change this situation, some say to improve myself, some say to save more money, and some say to lower the standard of mate selection. Opinions vary. For example, there are ten young men and only five girls. Although you follow the arrangement, there are still five young men who are single. The only way is to rely on the state to organize or guide young men to work abroad, and vigorously advocate and encourage young men to marry foreign girls. This can solve the problem that some young men are single.

The development of a nation depends on people, which makes marriage difficult. This is a real disaster. It is difficult for ordinary people to find women with money and power. How big is the gap between rich and poor? What is social stability? If you wake up early, it will be difficult to come back after accumulating. = 0 = 0 June 10 day = day:

Nowadays, the marriage smoke is framed by market economy and cultural factors. It is not to marry love at all, and I don't know what love is.

I'm glad to answer this question: how do you view a series of problems, such as the difficulty of getting married, the inability to afford a house, and the increasing number of single men day and night?

First of all, I think there are three factors that affect the difficulty of getting married and not being able to afford a house in China:

1. The ratio of male to female in China is unbalanced. In the past, feudal thought wanted boys, and it didn't matter whether girls were wanted or not, which led to more men and fewer women today.

The bride price is high. In some areas, the bride price is hundreds of thousands, which ordinary families can't afford.

The house price is too high. For example, housing prices in Shanghai and its suburbs are above 20,000 square meters. As a wage earner, it costs 20,000-30,000 yuan to buy a house. If you don't eat or drink for one year, you can save 72 thousand and 720 thousand for ten years, so you can start working at the age of 20 and buy a house without eating or drinking at the age of 70. Even if you buy a house at the age of 70, there is a bride price! According to the bride price of 300 thousand, I have to work for another four years. When the house is bought, the bride price is enough, but people are almost 80!

China has high housing prices and high bride price, so it is difficult to get married.

Single men will naturally increase day and night!

In the final analysis, it is because of the improvement of women's education level. Throughout the world, no matter which country, as long as women's education level improves, it will inevitably lead to a decline in marriage rate, an increase in derailment rate, an increase in divorce rate and a decrease in the birth rate of newborns. This is inevitable! From this, I really realized the true meaning of the old saying "A woman without talent is virtue"! Because in any dynasty, it is the most important and difficult for women to have children and reproduce! The ancients have told us the crux of the problem, but unfortunately we ignored it, and now it is irreparable! ! !

If it wasn't for the widespread killing of baby girls 30 years ago, how could it be like this today? Everyone knows it well, why should we push the responsibility out?

This problem involves many aspects. Let me answer it from the perspective of drifting north to single dog.

Getting married is difficult. Indeed, in this fast-paced city of Beijing, although it is very tolerant, there is not much sense of belonging. We can meet all kinds of people in Beijing. Many people are attracted to each other, but few of them end up together. After all, marriage is not a hurdle. Family background and future planning will push two people who are attracted to each other further and further.

We have met so many different people that we have forgotten who we really are, not to mention living in this city, and how to talk about a sense of belonging is a luxury in the future.

Can't afford a house, yes, I can't. Young people around the age of 30, who can really set up a home for themselves in Beijing four or five years after graduation?

Of course, some people can still afford it, at least they can. "We have worked hard for three generations, why should we lose to you for ten years?" When I first heard this passage, my heart was really full of five flavors, but the details were beside the point. I will talk about it later.

There are more and more single men, and young people who work hard in the north and south are at a loss about the dislocation between the future and the present reality. My future is still far away. What can I do to protect her future?

The development of society needs a large number of new laborers, and the mismatch between new desires and the old system is the root of this series of problems. We can't expect time to solve these problems, we can only adjust ourselves to this distorted reality.

To adjust yourself, we must first understand "who am I", accept the truth, whether it is clear or dark, and abandon the false information brought by complex environment. I dare not say how far I can go, but I must walk steadily and accurately.

This is caused by many aspects.

First, there is a serious imbalance between men and women in China. There are more men than women, which leads to more women's selectivity. What is natural selection? A woman must choose the conditions that suit her object. In addition, now that women's status has improved, they have their own independent economy, no longer rely on men, or even don't get married, so fewer girls are willing to get married, and more and more men are naturally single.

Second, the pressure of life is increasing now. The pressure brought by the high bride price when getting married is enough. In addition, after getting married and having children, most of the economy is borne by men. So when men see this, they will choose economic conditions and then consider getting married, and some even don't get married. There are naturally more and more single men in society.