Traditionally, people who get married and pick up the bride are relatives and friends of the man's family, usually uncles and the like. Some grooms invite their buddies to the woman's house to be the best man to pick up the bride, and they are basically men, and few women follow. Generally, no women will attend the wedding. And the number of wedding banquets is also particular. No matter how many people go to the wedding banquet, the number of people at the wedding banquet must be even when they come back, which is also a habit of marriage customs. As the saying goes, yes-men are taboo in marriage.

Second, go out to meet relatives.

The groom starts from the new house. If the wedding car needs to be tied with floats, he can also start from the place where the floats are tied. There are no specific regulations. The groom should try to avoid the rush hour when he leaves. When to start, mainly consider the distance and road conditions. On the wedding day, the groom should set out to meet the bride at the chosen auspicious time and go home at the chosen auspicious time.

Third, the door card test

The game of blocking the door is the biggest test for the groom in the wedding ceremony. When the groom goes to the woman's house, there is a pleasing link after seeing the woman's family. In other words, the bridesmaids of the bride will deliberately embarrass the groom, ask some questions or complete some games, and then enter the bride's room after passing or passing the customs. The principles of customs clearance are as follows: 1. Coaxing: Coaxing bridesmaids and relatives and friends of the bride, either directly using red envelopes or using actions; The second is to be patient: no matter how difficult the bridesmaid is, the groom should not be angry. But remember to stop.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride

Fourth, the marriage proposal ceremony

After all kinds of obstacles, the groom can finally enter the door to meet the bride. The first thing after entering the door is to hold flowers, kneel on one knee and propose to the bride.

Five, drink lotus seed soup

The custom of eating a bowl of lotus seed soup is found in many places, in order to make the couple live a harmonious and beautiful life. And according to some rural customs, when the groom comes here, the woman's family needs to prepare some snacks for the man. After dessert, the groom can pick up the bride.

Sixth, offer tea to elders.

After the proposal is completed, you should take the bride to offer tea to your elders and change your mind.

Seven, say goodbye to parents

The bride should say goodbye to her parents while the groom just bows. When going out, the bride should knock on her parents' door, and the groom can bow at this time. When the bride goes out, she needs some elderly women with high blessings to guide her to the wedding car with bamboo plaques or red umbrellas. This is to hope that the bride can be as happy as this older woman. Bamboo plaque or red umbrella can be put in the car or trunk after use.

Eight, go out etiquette

The bride should be held by the groom and get on the wedding car. Before the bride gets on the wedding car, a little boy will give her a fan. At this time, the bride will give the boy a red envelope as a thank you. When the car is ready to start, the bride will throw the fan out of the car, which means that the bride's bad temper should be thrown away. You are not allowed to take it to your husband's house. The boy will pick it up and give it back to her mother's family. They will thank her with red envelopes.

Nine, never say goodbye

After the bride gets on the bus, the wedding team is ready to leave. At this time, the family, relatives and friends of the man can't say goodbye to the family of the woman. After the bus comes out, set off firecrackers along the road until you return to the groom's house. When you get to the groom's house, you have to cross the brazier with thick waist before you can enter the door.

Ten, happiness burning cannon

Set off firecrackers when the car leaves the woman's house.

The process of getting married and picking up the bride