To me, a bench is just a small piece of furniture to sit on. But my sugar baby thinks that the bench can not only sit, but also play.

My bench is plastic, pink, rectangular, with hollowed-out sides for easy access, hollowed-out bottom and a round hole in the middle of the seat for fingers to pass through. I admit that I have never observed it so carefully, entirely because of my little beast.

When eating, sugar baby will move the bench by himself, imitate adults sitting on it to eat, and will take the bench away and put it back after eating. When you want something high enough and can't reach it, you will try to stand up on the stool, but we have never taught these skills.

Before taking a nap, sugar baby will turn the stool upside down, put her beloved kitten doll in, blindfold her and let her sleep. For her, this is not a stool, but a kitten bed. After waking up, Tangtang took the cat doll out and put it aside, got into the stool by himself, and waited for Dad to pick up the stool and hold her down. At this time, the bench is a spaceship. When she was bored, she turned the bench upside down and pushed it to the ground. The bench is her soul chariot. Every day in the dormitory, she would hold the stool with her head and watch us play hide-and-seek in a hollow place. Once, she found that the voice shouted from the stool above her head was different from the ground. She will try to shout a voice from the round hole and call her silly happiness. ...

If it weren't for my candy, dear, I would never have known that benches have so many hidden uses in my life. I often wonder what's going on in her little head and why there are so many wild ideas. Sometimes I get a little worried. Will my actions protect her safety, but limit her imagination and creativity?

Psychologically speaking, when we study, grow, work and live in different environments, we will form an inherent mode of thinking over time, which is often called inertial thinking. Once you get used to this inertial thinking mode, it is difficult to think from another angle and accept new things. Although it is helpful to our understanding at some time, it will limit our ability to judge things more.

The opposite of fixed thinking is growth thinking. A person's way of thinking is the secret of success.

Especially after becoming a mother, I often feel that my own ideas are always right and others' ideas are wrong. My mind has been deeply imprisoned, but I still have no idea.

Fortunately, I realized this through candyman. It is not too late. I study hard, study hard, and try to have some growth thinking.

On the premise of ensuring safety, I joined her stool trick and felt very happy with her. I also created some new ways to play. For example, I put my finger up from the round hole at the bottom and let her grasp it with her hand, and experienced a low-level mouse beating.

It is said that parents are children's first teachers, but through children, we can often learn more and get much more than we pay.

If you find yourself with a naughty child, you must observe and reflect more, and maybe you will have new feelings.